BIL Security Team Alpha
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mouth of the south wanted a title so here it is
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Post by BIL Security Team Alpha on May 20, 2024 17:06:39 GMT -5
Sofia no longer puts the Miss in misgendered.
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masterkiller
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Post by masterkiller on May 21, 2024 4:33:32 GMT -5
Sometimes I get misgendered on the phone at work. Cant a man have a fruity voice smh
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gwf kegel
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Post by gwf kegel on May 21, 2024 7:14:15 GMT -5
Idea for porno spoof
Transspotting
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Ass Dan
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Post by Ass Dan on May 21, 2024 7:15:44 GMT -5
gendered correctly AGAIN (from far away lol) (what is going on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) #progress #road2femininity It’s the long hair. Old people see long hair and immediately think “she”.
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2024 7:17:49 GMT -5
gendered correctly AGAIN (from far away lol) (what is going on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) #progress #road2femininity It’s the long hair. Old people see long hair and immediately think “she”. well this time she was 21. she asked for my pronouns, the kids are alright.
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Deleted
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2024 7:19:15 GMT -5
A lot goes into it. Compounding factors. One could put in so much work to get gendered female but a little bit of stubble will “ruin it.” Not to mention cis people are generally clueless. I see gender non conforming people, people transitioning, whatever, all of the time if you know what to look for.
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carl carlson
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Post by carl carlson on May 21, 2024 7:19:47 GMT -5
i was peeing in a urinal on sunday and a guy pulled the ol’ abe simpson and when i walked out they asked me if it was the men’s room
amazing what long hair and wearing pink does to ppl
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Deleted
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2024 7:34:33 GMT -5
saying its "the hair" is a good example. there is a type of cis person who technically has no problem with trans people but can't imagine they'd ever actually meet one. WE WALK AMONG U.
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reformed thug
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Post by reformed thug on May 21, 2024 9:13:18 GMT -5
Feel free to school me but I feel it’s a little presumptuous to ask for pronouns
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2024 9:16:03 GMT -5
Feel free to school me but I feel it’s a little presumptuous to ask for pronouns why would it be? It’s validating
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reformed thug
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Post by reformed thug on May 21, 2024 9:26:29 GMT -5
I guess I feel it’s easy enough and still respectful to use someone’s name in direct conversation. Like hey I noticed you present as a woman but you have stubble, can I check your pronouns real quick.. feels like blowing up their spot
Edit: obv not calling attention to stubble out loud
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Deleted
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2024 9:32:38 GMT -5
I mean people know their situation. Like, I’m transitioning at 33. People feel seen when using their correct pronouns. For cis people pronouns are something most never consider, it’s just taken for granted. If you’re trans, you likely think about your gender all day, everyday, until maybe you pass or whatever but that’s a whole other loaded conversation. It is okay to ask. This thing happens with me where people only use my name. I don’t understand the hang up personally.
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concealer
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Post by concealer on May 21, 2024 9:35:24 GMT -5
I saw a car yesterday with a decal of an assault rifle that said “I identify as a crossbow” and I wanted to PIT maneuver it off the Walt Whitman Bridge we were crossing
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2024 9:36:29 GMT -5
I just think at the end of the day, using someone’s correct pronouns is paramount to affirming their identity. Just ask if you’re unsure. It’s a million times more frustrating and alienating when people make a big deal about “having to adjust” and “needing time to understand.”
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reformed thug
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Post by reformed thug on May 21, 2024 9:46:26 GMT -5
That’s true. I take for granted I never had to ask my trans friends what they identified as, I let them refer to each other when not around and wen't from there
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beowulf
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Post by beowulf on May 21, 2024 9:51:16 GMT -5
A lot goes into it. Compounding factors. One could put in so much work to get gendered female but a little bit of stubble will “ruin it.” Not to mention cis people are generally clueless. I see gender non conforming people, people transitioning, whatever, all of the time if you know what to look for. It is just like Jesus says in the bible Mark 4:9 "Whoever has ears to hear, let them hear."
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2024 9:56:49 GMT -5
That’s true. I take for granted I never had to ask my trans friends what they identified as, I let them refer to each other when not around and wen't from there I have to say everyone’s transition is different and I’m just speaking from my experience. I admit im kind of flattening the issue from my PoV, but at the same time I do firmly believe you don’t really know what’s going on with someone unless you ask, and that goes for many things beyond pronouns, too. I also think many people cis and trans have hang ups about asking simply because it’s not widely practiced in society.
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