ITID
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Post by ITID on Apr 1, 2019 3:25:06 GMT -5
I legit flat out ask dudes I want to make out with if they have a girlfriend now.. Iβm so sick of feeling shitty because I have made out with someone and then finding out they have a gf. Then, if i find out they do, it makes them the fucking scumbag not me. "Define girlfriend..."
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Post by M on Apr 1, 2019 3:51:22 GMT -5
Yeah thatβs when I walk off haha
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rowdiedondown
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Post by rowdiedondown on Apr 1, 2019 7:27:06 GMT -5
Girl. And I def asked him if he's with anyone else, and explicitly stated my boundaries and expectations. And he lied his face off
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Post by M on Apr 1, 2019 7:37:40 GMT -5
Girl. And I def asked him if he's with anyone else, and explicitly stated my boundaries and expectations. And he lied his face off Fuck him. Not literally of course. What a turd.
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rowdiedondown
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Post by rowdiedondown on Apr 1, 2019 17:10:42 GMT -5
Damn, what is wrong with these people??
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ITID
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Post by ITID on Apr 1, 2019 17:39:29 GMT -5
My only question is how these people have honed the time management skills to get away it for any extended period. Let's skip the manipulation and ability to isolate relationships, is there a seminar I can take that will teach me the skills to carve out a separate space between work and social time for even metaphorical fuckery?
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Post by Brah-lie on Apr 1, 2019 19:18:48 GMT -5
Some people are shitheads- hiding a relationship and leading someone on is a pretty rotten thing to do.
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squid
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Post by squid on Apr 1, 2019 20:17:37 GMT -5
I think I will be single for the rest of my life ~*womp womp*~
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killthekool
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Post by killthekool on Apr 1, 2019 20:26:33 GMT -5
squid stop it. Im coming up to canada for you. Just gotta wait the 7 years for legality reasons
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not Worship
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Post by not Worship on Apr 1, 2019 20:44:14 GMT -5
Bro you are dyin for internet poosay
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Post by squid on Apr 1, 2019 20:44:37 GMT -5
Iβll be 37 by then my ovaries are shrivelling as we speak!!!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 1, 2019 20:46:57 GMT -5
love is tough but tough is real. give me dysfunction or give me death.
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Brah-lie
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Post by Brah-lie on Apr 1, 2019 20:49:08 GMT -5
I stand by my original statement- love stinks.
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Post by killthekool on Apr 1, 2019 21:09:00 GMT -5
Bro you are dyin for internet poosay fuck youre right.
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squid
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Post by squid on Apr 1, 2019 21:39:57 GMT -5
hey I am a real catch. I am chunky yet funky. A real mβlady
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Post by M on Apr 2, 2019 3:01:36 GMT -5
I know so many people that do this and brag about it.
It sort of is one of the other reasons im single. I dont understand it at all and would never be able to cheat on anyone.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2019 18:50:42 GMT -5
I'm not a puritan naysayer or anything. I'm totally cool with what consenting adults wanna do but I've been hearing more and more from people about how the hook up/friends with benefits relationships always end up with someone getting hurt. For example, one person agrees to the situation because they like the person and that's kind of a false pretense but understandable if you will settle for anything considering people are disposable in these situations. One or both parties doesn't want the responsibility of caring, supporting, etc. which a relationship requires so it's basically using another person as a means to an end. It's transactional like most of our interactions now.
I've done it before and been on both sides of that. Thoughts?
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not Worship
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this is the very last thing i have ever read, gootbye
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Post by not Worship on Apr 5, 2019 18:58:41 GMT -5
Its great when you find someone who actually means what they say when it comes to fwb, but 75% of the time they are emotionally invested
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squid
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Post by squid on Apr 7, 2019 21:05:22 GMT -5
ok I gave this guy my number and he has barely texted me! like buddy you asked for it!!! You play in lord of the rings table top game tournaments like come on I am a catch! I hate boys π
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Post by ππΌπππ½πββπππβ on Apr 7, 2019 21:07:16 GMT -5
Maybe he's scared
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Post by ππΌπππ½πββπππβ on Apr 7, 2019 21:08:50 GMT -5
Thanks for reminding me that I'm a shitbag for never texting the girl working the cookie stand at the mall who gave me her number when I drunkenly asked for it
To be fair tho she shouldn't have high hopes for a dude who's drunk in the mall at 4pm
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squid
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Post by squid on Apr 7, 2019 21:10:32 GMT -5
poor cookie girl I feel her pain
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Post by ππΌπππ½πββπππβ on Apr 7, 2019 21:11:48 GMT -5
She deserved better so it works out
I believe my opening was "ay so do a lot of juggalos holler at you here? Well... I'm not a juggalo"
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squid
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Post by squid on Apr 7, 2019 21:58:23 GMT -5
thatβs a pantydropper line right there
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ITID
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Post by ITID on Apr 7, 2019 23:17:58 GMT -5
I believe my opening was "ay so do a lot of juggalos holler at you here? Well... I'm not a juggalo" This is definitely going into the arsenal.
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Post by M on Apr 8, 2019 2:09:07 GMT -5
I'm not a puritan naysayer or anything. I'm totally cool with what consenting adults wanna do but I've been hearing more and more from people about how the hook up/friends with benefits relationships always end up with someone getting hurt. For example, one person agrees to the situation because they like the person and that's kind of a false pretense but understandable if you will settle for anything considering people are disposable in these situations. One or both parties doesn't want the responsibility of caring, supporting, etc. which a relationship requires so it's basically using another person as a means to an end. It's transactional like most of our interactions now. I've done it before and been on both sides of that. Thoughts? I donβt think it works. Someone always gets hurt. Also, really, I donβt want to be sleeping with someone that I am not really attracted to so there is that. But thatβs just me.
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Post by twocripplesdancing on Apr 8, 2019 2:56:07 GMT -5
Had to meet an ex and her new boyfriend over the weekend for a friend's stag party. I guess I handled it the best I could, said hello, introduced myself and had a few conversations here and there. She seems really happy, so good for her. But man, if it hasn't fucked with my head now. I know these are just thoughts and not feelings, but it's really knocked me back a bit.
Plus I get to do it all over again at the wedding in July. Hooray!
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Post by killthekool on Apr 8, 2019 6:15:44 GMT -5
A stag party is STRICTLY for men only. Thats why its called a STAG. Can you please explain to me why you keep calling it a stag party when both genders were there? I could see some 3rd wave feminist girlfriend of one of the attendees losing her shit about the concept of STAG and making him call up the host of the stag party. That just reaks of cuck all over it
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Post by twocripplesdancing on Apr 8, 2019 7:11:00 GMT -5
A stag party is STRICTLY for men only. Thats why its called a STAG. Can you please explain to me why you keep calling it a stag party when both genders were there? I could see some 3rd wave feminist girlfriend of one of the attendees losing her shit about the concept of STAG and making him call up the host of the stag party. That just reaks of cuck all over it I don't know, it wasn't my idea, it's a very 2019 thing to do. This year sucks.
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killthekool
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Post by killthekool on Apr 8, 2019 11:15:38 GMT -5
A stag party is STRICTLY for men only. Thats why its called a STAG. Can you please explain to me why you keep calling it a stag party when both genders were there? I could see some 3rd wave feminist girlfriend of one of the attendees losing her shit about the concept of STAG and making him call up the host of the stag party. That just reaks of cuck all over it I don't know, it wasn't my idea, it's a very 2019 thing to do. This year sucks. That whole shit seeing ur ex with another is the pits man. i feel you
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