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Post by tandoori jones on Jun 30, 2024 12:30:41 GMT -5
I have a girlfriend now but jean is a nice internet pal when you asked her to be your girlfriend i assume you got down on one knee in olive garden
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Post by tandoori jones on Jun 30, 2024 12:31:39 GMT -5
or should i say, when you funko pop-ped the question
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Post by yosupbro on Jun 30, 2024 12:40:06 GMT -5
I have a girlfriend now but jean is a nice internet pal
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Post by reformed thug on Jun 30, 2024 12:53:03 GMT -5
Going to the obscure band concert where there are hundreds if not thousands of singles looking for a forum addict
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tandoori jones
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Post by tandoori jones on Jun 30, 2024 12:54:00 GMT -5
i’ve never been to a concert or show with my wife and probably never will
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Post by Mr. Dingle Foot on Jun 30, 2024 13:08:31 GMT -5
i’ve never been to a concert or show with my wife and probably never will this is wild, yall have 0 crossover?
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Post by sofia on Jun 30, 2024 13:09:56 GMT -5
they spend all their time together out on the lake
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Post by tandoori jones on Jun 30, 2024 13:10:01 GMT -5
i’ve never been to a concert or show with my wife and probably never will this is wild, yall have 0 crossover? we do. she just doesn’t do concerts. and we have enough other interests in common that’s it’s a non-issue. i’m also a weird and generally prefer going to shows alone. though i did take her mother to george strait and chris stapleton last month for her mother’s day gift and it was fun
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Post by Ⓝ𝒶𝓇匚[REDACTED]ᗴᖇ on Jun 30, 2024 13:10:22 GMT -5
goc doesn’t like hardcore much outside of a live context but she found out she really likes Oi.
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Post by jeanxseberg on Jun 30, 2024 13:11:53 GMT -5
I also really enjoy poaching every interesting thing anyone has ever shown me and adopting it as my own, so I'm ok being single if I'm not dating someone I can constantly pick the brain of. The first date I had in what was one of my longest relationships was just me sitting on the floor and going through the guy's bookshelf one by one and asking him about every book there that I wasn't familiar with. I don't think caring about stuff like that is for everyone, but I also think the right kind of person tends to find it charming and it doubles as a form of ego flattery. yeah that sounds exhausting lol ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ not into guys who think their sacred little hobbies are for the boys anyway so the feeling is mutual, different strokes for different folks and all that
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tandoori jones
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Post by tandoori jones on Jun 30, 2024 13:12:56 GMT -5
yeah that sounds exhausting lol ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ not into guys who think their sacred little hobbies are for the boys anyway so the feeling is mutual, different strokes for different folks and all that that’s not it at all. just hate getting pestered with a million questions regardless of the subject
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Post by tandoori jones on Jun 30, 2024 13:13:38 GMT -5
it’s like having a little kid in the backseat asking “are we there yet?” every 5 seconds
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Post by Mr. Dingle Foot on Jun 30, 2024 13:14:03 GMT -5
this is wild, yall have 0 crossover? we do. she just doesn’t do concerts. and we have enough other interests in common that’s it’s a non-issue. i’m also a weird and generally prefer going to shows alone. though i did take her mother to george strait and chris stapleton last month for her mother’s day gift and it was fun I am not even talking about a show but like a bigger concert? I mean, if it works more power to you but that seems insane to me.
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Post by tandoori jones on Jun 30, 2024 13:14:43 GMT -5
we do. she just doesn’t do concerts. and we have enough other interests in common that’s it’s a non-issue. i’m also a weird and generally prefer going to shows alone. though i did take her mother to george strait and chris stapleton last month for her mother’s day gift and it was fun I am not even talking about a show but like a bigger concert? I mean, if it works more power to you but that seems insane to me. bigger concert is probably her biggest nightmare
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Post by regular al on Jun 30, 2024 13:14:59 GMT -5
Yeah music is like one of the least important things to have in common. As a grown adult you should be able to talk about practically anything other than bands.
Really if you're attracted to each other, sex is good, and you agree on core beliefs that should be all you need re: compatibility. This music shit is just a niche interest like falconry or something.
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Post by sofia on Jun 30, 2024 13:17:42 GMT -5
It's not that I need to talk to about bands, but having a great time at a show together can be some transcendent shit. I want to dance in the club w/ my beautiful wife is that so much to ask!! I'd really like for that option to be available in a relationship.
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Post by jeanxseberg on Jun 30, 2024 13:19:32 GMT -5
Yeah but I feel like there is a little bad faith necessary to misconstrue preferring to date people who are passionate about art with preferring to date people who have as complementary taste in art to you as possible
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Post by tandoori jones on Jun 30, 2024 13:25:05 GMT -5
i think the best was i wen't to see morgan wade do an acoustic set last summer at tarrytown music hall. my wife LOVES morgan wade and LOVES tarrytown music hall cause she’s been there for plays and whatever.
she did not want to go.
i wen't by myself and brought her home a t-shirt she loves and wears all the time. both of us were happy
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Post by jeanxseberg on Jun 30, 2024 13:26:07 GMT -5
i think the best was i wen't to see morgan wade do an acoustic set last summer at tarrytown music hall. my wife LOVES morgan wade and LOVES tarrytown music hall cause she’s been there for plays and whatever. she did not want to go. i wen't by myself and brought her home a t-shirt she loves and wears all the time. both of us were happy That's definitely a sign of being in a healthy relationship and I think including your partner in too many things is generally just a sign of codependency
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Post by sofia on Jun 30, 2024 13:26:58 GMT -5
i just want 2 have a nice time
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Post by regular al on Jun 30, 2024 13:30:11 GMT -5
Coming home to my wife after rocking out to some shit she has no interest in>>>>>>
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Post by throwdemgunz on Jun 30, 2024 13:31:18 GMT -5
Yeah music is like one of the least important things to have in common. As a grown adult you should be able to talk about practically anything other than bands. Really if you're attracted to each other, sex is good, and you agree on core beliefs that should be all you need re: compatibility. This music shit is just a niche interest like falconry or something. Seems a bit reductive to call falconry a niche hobby. I know personally I could never be with someone who thinks a peregrine is on the same level as a common kestrel!
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Post by floorpunchchalie on Jun 30, 2024 13:31:33 GMT -5
On the subject of going to hardcore shows together we are seeing fiddlehead and gel in july!! Then we’re seeing blink 182 together.
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Post by sofia on Jun 30, 2024 13:34:07 GMT -5
i just wanna do stuff together and have a nice time it can be things I like, things she likes, things we both like. if we need some time away, we can have that too. hit my line if this sounds nice to you
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Post by floorpunchchalie on Jun 30, 2024 13:34:33 GMT -5
It's not that I need to talk to about bands, but having a great time at a show together can be some transcendent shit. I want to dance in the club w/ my beautiful wife is that so much to ask!! I'd really like for that option to be available in a relationship. It’s best to have shared experiences with people so if that includes having a great time at a show together then it helps the relationship grow imo.
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Post by crobssssss on Jun 30, 2024 13:35:53 GMT -5
If they don’t like Deadguy, they can get lost!! I’m jking really though.
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Post by jeanxseberg on Jun 30, 2024 13:39:07 GMT -5
I do think some interests are more worthwhile to talk about than others. I would love to listen to someone talk about fishing or furniture making even though I know absolutely nothing about it. But I think I would actually want to kill myself if I ever had to listen to someone talk about anime or video games for longer than a minute or two.
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Post by concealer on Jun 30, 2024 13:39:24 GMT -5
I don’t think music is necessarily that trivial, if it’s someone of or involved in it to a degree that most of us here are. It’s a lot more of a “lifestyle” than it is just something to put on in the car to some, given all the shows and shirts and traveling for shows and touring and music-related tattoos etc. I don’t think it’s that weird to want some crossover or at least understanding of its importance.
That’s not to say it’s absolutely essential, but I get why it would be an important trait to seek. It feels good to deeply relate about something that’s that important to you, and to be able to be really understood when you express how you connect with this or that. Otherwise it may just feel like being humored, which isn’t quite the same even if well-intentioned.
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Post by concealer on Jun 30, 2024 13:41:50 GMT -5
I don’t really care what anyone else does, if you prefer keeping things a bit more separate that’s cool too. I just don’t think the desire for overlap is odd at all.
Biased man speaking, my wife was bumping Hum Inlet and Swervedriver yesterday when I came into the garage where she was working
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Post by sofia on Jun 30, 2024 13:42:18 GMT -5
Me w/ beautiful wife in car, driving out to see a band we both like
Don’t get much better
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