tyburn
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Post by tyburn on Nov 6, 2018 13:01:45 GMT -5
I'm going to go hang out with my ex this weekend. I also have a date with a girl I knew in college who lives in the same city in case that doesn't go well. I also have someone i met off tinder a few months ago I'm getting lunch with in case that doesn't go well. Also going to a show and getting tattooed in case none of them go well. Basically I'm trying to set myself up to not waste a weekend out of town.
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tyburn
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Post by tyburn on Nov 13, 2018 23:40:31 GMT -5
I'm going to go hang out with my ex this weekend. I also have a date with a girl I knew in college who lives in the same city in case that doesn't go well. I also have someone i met off tinder a few months ago I'm getting lunch with in case that doesn't go well. Also going to a show and getting tattooed in case none of them go well. Basically I'm trying to set myself up to not waste a weekend out of town. update: me and my ex are back together and i'm probably gonna move outta philly so we can live together again lmao. I got a better explanation of what led to us breaking up and i'm totally not mad anymore. It's wild, it's been over a year since we broke up and I assumed i got played and he never really like me all that much anyway, but like i dunno, we both feel the same way about life, each other, and ourselves, and I never can find anyone who can remotely understand where i'm coming from or who i can talk to about mental health stuff without feeling weird or like I'm scaring them. There's things about him that help me stay sober and practice self care and I know i somehow end up doing the same for him, it's rad to feel understood and like an equal. Hoping this doesn't screw up my life but TBH i don't really have anything to lose at this point in my life. Also i got two tattoos on the same day and the weekend was extra rad.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 14, 2018 1:09:33 GMT -5
I had no idea you were struggling with sobriety
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killthekool
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Post by killthekool on Nov 14, 2018 1:59:36 GMT -5
I'm going to go hang out with my ex this weekend. I also have a date with a girl I knew in college who lives in the same city in case that doesn't go well. I also have someone i met off tinder a few months ago I'm getting lunch with in case that doesn't go well. Also going to a show and getting tattooed in case none of them go well. Basically I'm trying to set myself up to not waste a weekend out of town. update: me and my ex are back together and i'm probably gonna move outta philly so we can live together again lmao. I got a better explanation of what led to us breaking up and i'm totally not mad anymore. It's wild, it's been over a year since we broke up and I assumed i got played and he never really like me all that much anyway, but like i dunno, we both feel the same way about life, each other, and ourselves, and I never can find anyone who can remotely understand where i'm coming from or who i can talk to about mental health stuff without feeling weird or like I'm scaring them. There's things about him that help me stay sober and practice self care and I know i somehow end up doing the same for him, it's rad to feel understood and like an equal. Hoping this doesn't screw up my life but TBH i don't really have anything to lose at this point in my life. Also i got two tattoos on the same day and the weekend was extra rad. So youre saying your just gonna settle? DO NOT DO THIS, This is going to end in heartbreak and you will regret it. It sounds like youre in a vulnerable spot and you shouldnt make any rash decisions. No one is going to help you stay sober. I get you wanna be understood but you will find someone. There is a reason you broke up. Dont beat a deal horse. The world is huge and youre young. Dont settle. Self care is exactly that "SELF CARE"
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tyburn
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Post by tyburn on Nov 14, 2018 3:10:56 GMT -5
oh you're reading this wrong. I've been sober over 10 years, i don't really think about drinking, it's more that I don't really have friends to chill with who aren't gonna want drugs or alcohol involved, and i know that won't be an issue with him.
and it's definitely not settling. The whole time we've been broken up, a huge part of me wished we could reconcile, but I wanted to be mad and immature and not talk about what happened. Even the three people I dated between, it wasn't the same.
We broke up because we were doing a temporary long distance thing and i wasn't giving any support or really paying any attention because i was work stressed, i already knew that. I didn't know he got involved with an abusive and controlling friend of both of ours while he was out there. Literally the whole breakup could have been avoided if I wasn't so emotionally distant to the point that I would leave him on read for days and not talk to him.
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killthekool
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Post by killthekool on Nov 14, 2018 3:38:20 GMT -5
oh oh... Sorry i kinda overstepped/reached there! Congrats on being sober that long btw
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Post by Deleted on Nov 14, 2018 7:51:19 GMT -5
oh you're reading this wrong. I've been sober over 10 years, i don't really think about drinking, it's more that I don't really have friends to chill with who aren't gonna want drugs or alcohol involved, and i know that won't be an issue with him. and it's definitely not settling. The whole time we've been broken up, a huge part of me wished we could reconcile, but I wanted to be mad and immature and not talk about what happened. Even the three people I dated between, it wasn't the same. We broke up because we were doing a temporary long distance thing and i wasn't giving any support or really paying any attention because i was work stressed, i already knew that. I didn't know he got involved with an abusive and controlling friend of both of ours while he was out there. Literally the whole breakup could have been avoided if I wasn't so emotionally distant to the point that I would leave him on read for days and not talk to him. I’m so jealous he gets to caress that sweet bulbous booty
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Post by not Worship on Nov 14, 2018 8:08:55 GMT -5
Deleted tinder and bumble so i can focus my energy on playing RDR2 and Battlefield
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Post by djilo91 on Nov 14, 2018 8:31:57 GMT -5
Deleted tinder and bumble so i can focus my energy on playing RDR2 and Battlefield Try not to fall in love too hard with your Horse. Horse love is fleeting.
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Post by sarahohio on Nov 14, 2018 10:08:54 GMT -5
I got back together with my main man. His name is Link and we are playing Breath of the Wild again.
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Post by livefromplanetdeath on Nov 18, 2018 17:10:15 GMT -5
This is a thread I can get into.
Started dating a girl from LA, moved there for her, spent a year there and was into it and things got bad kinda. Moved back home to upstate NY last November, and have spent the last year working a bunch and putting out releases on the label I run. Ex and I became friends again recently, which is kind of cool, but exactly where it needs to stay. Just started seeing someone as of like two weeks ago, and it’s been kind of nice getting to know someone new/who likes almost nothing that I am into.
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Post by crawlingcosmichorror on Nov 18, 2018 19:59:34 GMT -5
I'm still dating the same girl and honestly, I think she's it. It's just so easy. To be fair I've kinda outgrown a lot of my stupid behavior at this point in my life but she's a wonderful woman and literally everything I've ever wanted in a partner, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.
I'm going to pop the question.
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Post by Brah-lie on Nov 18, 2018 20:16:44 GMT -5
Met a young babe last week but she’s only early 20s, so aside from food and sex, I don’t think there will be a lot of common ground. Said young lady is also on the rather attractive side and seems mature for her age, so maybe there’s a steak dinner in her future.
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Post by Top Rope Swanton on Nov 18, 2018 20:17:28 GMT -5
Met a young babe last week but she’s only early 20s, so aside from food and sex, I don’t think there will be a lot of common ground. Said young lady is also on the rather attractive side and seems mature for her age, so maybe there’s a steak dinner in her future. Is that code for anal?
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Post by Brah-lie on Nov 18, 2018 20:27:59 GMT -5
Met a young babe last week but she’s only early 20s, so aside from food and sex, I don’t think there will be a lot of common ground. Said young lady is also on the rather attractive side and seems mature for her age, so maybe there’s a steak dinner in her future. Is that code for anal? A gentleman doesn’t kiss and tell. I will say there was extended eye contact and she kept pressing her lips together, tho. All I could think of:
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Post by Deleted on Nov 18, 2018 20:31:29 GMT -5
Met a young babe last week but she’s only early 20s, so aside from food and sex, I don’t think there will be a lot of common ground. Said young lady is also on the rather attractive side and seems mature for her age, so maybe there’s a steak dinner in her future. Why? Just get what you need and move on.
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Post by Brah-lie on Nov 18, 2018 20:36:27 GMT -5
Met a young babe last week but she’s only early 20s, so aside from food and sex, I don’t think there will be a lot of common ground. Said young lady is also on the rather attractive side and seems mature for her age, so maybe there’s a steak dinner in her future. Why? Just get what you need and move on. I’m old school, I still believe in romancing them a bit. Nice dinner, a drink or two then retreat back to a hotel room.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 18, 2018 20:43:22 GMT -5
Why? Just get what you need and move on. I’m old school, I still believe in romancing them a bit. Nice dinner, a drink or two then retreat back to a hotel room. That’s what she wants. You know damn well it ain’t what you want and any guy who truly thinks that is a liar. Haha. I just don’t get spending $100+ on dinner for someone you don’t see a future with.
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Post by kerryxking on Nov 18, 2018 20:56:03 GMT -5
IT AINT TRICKIN IF U GOT IT
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Post by Brah-lie on Nov 18, 2018 20:58:31 GMT -5
I’m old school, I still believe in romancing them a bit. Nice dinner, a drink or two then retreat back to a hotel room. That’s what she wants. You know damn well it ain’t what you want and any guy who truly thinks that is a liar. Haha. I just don’t get spending $100+ on dinner for someone you don’t see a future with. I actually enjoy taking a young woman out and grabbing a bite to eat, exchanging laughs and finishing the night on a good note. Who knows, it could end up turning into an extended friends with benefits arrangement?
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Post by Deleted on Nov 18, 2018 21:06:55 GMT -5
That’s what she wants. You know damn well it ain’t what you want and any guy who truly thinks that is a liar. Haha. I just don’t get spending $100+ on dinner for someone you don’t see a future with. I actually enjoy taking a young woman out and grabbing a bite to eat, exchanging laughs and finishing the night on a good note. Who knows, it could end up turning into an extended friends with benefits arrangement? But it’s not going to. You’ll keep buying her dinners. Save the money.
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Post by ITID on Nov 18, 2018 21:11:24 GMT -5
I actually enjoy taking a young woman out and grabbing a bite to eat, exchanging laughs and finishing the night on a good note. Who knows, it could end up turning into an extended friends with benefits arrangement? But it’s not going to. You’ll keep buying her dinners. Save the money. This the same reason I watch cam versions of films instead of going to movie theaters.
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Post by bravecaptain on Nov 18, 2018 21:12:16 GMT -5
my chinnita is dank
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Post by Brah-lie on Nov 18, 2018 21:20:16 GMT -5
I actually enjoy taking a young woman out and grabbing a bite to eat, exchanging laughs and finishing the night on a good note. Who knows, it could end up turning into an extended friends with benefits arrangement? But it’s not going to. You’ll keep buying her dinners. Save the money. Dinner then dessert isn’t a bad arrangement at all- actually it’s ideal.
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Post by crossedout on Nov 18, 2018 21:58:53 GMT -5
I've been dating a b9er for 4 years now. That msg board love, ya know
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Post by (some berries is ok) on Nov 18, 2018 22:11:18 GMT -5
Recently single, it sucks but life happens. Been debating on downloading tinder but I talk myself out of it every time.
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this is the very last thing i have ever read, gootbye
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Post by not Worship on Nov 18, 2018 23:43:46 GMT -5
i received the most graphic nudes of my entire life last night
lort give me strength
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Post by borntodie on Nov 18, 2018 23:48:22 GMT -5
you can't just leave us like that. what were they?
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Post by ITID on Nov 19, 2018 0:04:33 GMT -5
i received the most graphic nudes of my entire life last night lort give me strength nws
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Post by Deleted on Nov 19, 2018 10:06:59 GMT -5
But it’s not going to. You’ll keep buying her dinners. Save the money. This the same reason I watch cam versions of films instead of going to movie theaters.
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