rowdiedondown
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Post by rowdiedondown on Jan 29, 2019 17:17:00 GMT -5
Oh yeah,I'm going about it all wrong. He's a good person, had been upfront about what he wants out of us from the beginning. I want more, just because he's fun to be around and attractive. We talk and text a lot, blurring lines and I thought there was a possibility.
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shitass
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Post by shitass on Jan 29, 2019 18:12:40 GMT -5
I was in a relationship for 3 and half year and I forgot how fucking stupid easy it is to get laid.
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rowdiedondown
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Post by rowdiedondown on Jan 29, 2019 20:23:21 GMT -5
Too easy, just installed the dating app Feeld. There is a polar vortex and a travel ban, and could still get dick delivered
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outforblood
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Post by outforblood on Jan 29, 2019 22:11:03 GMT -5
I did the online dating scenario for far too long (create and delete in the matter of 3 weeks every time), as it was more or less a coping mechanism during periods of heavy drinking to deal with the bitter truth of loneliness I felt during a year and a half of an on-and-off relationship with a girl who taught me the wrong side of love. It's shitty that it can work like that, and as matches and conversations happened, it was always treated as an ego boost during periods of self loathing and low self esteem. Social media definitely played a part in the insecurity factor of it all with our relationship, with her being a college basic girl loving dogs and hiking and having a vast network of party friends, and had dudes constantly trying to sweep her off her feet via DM's, Snapchat (which I don't use), and Twitter (which I don't use). She hardly posted anything of us, which to each their own in how they cater their social media, but we had split from the Facebook relationship post from a huge fight early on, and got back together without bothering to change it, and I watched Rome fall to the 12+ Instagram DM's she would have readily unread every time she wanted to show me some meme. I knew deep down she entertained these possibilities, and the person I am now would say all the power to her, we were both shitheads. As painful as it was to watch most of 2018 challenge what I've known for dating, I grew some guts and just before Christmas reconnected with a long time crush who for twelve years felt the exact same way. The love and solid ground I feel now with someone I can finally consider my best friend blows whatever happiness I thought I had out of the water, to where I've told a handful of people I plan on marrying this person. Same music taste, same humor, same willingness to show each other off without feeling like we necessarily "have to" and instead truly want to. Dating isn't what it was 5 years ago, let alone 10 years ago, and I wish the best of luck to anyone battling that reality check to a world driven by the internet and instant gratification of social media.
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killthekool
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Post by killthekool on Jan 29, 2019 22:49:37 GMT -5
Well said outforblood... That was a very very similar situation i was in a few years back... Ive toyed with the idea of downloading bumble or something again but I really dont know if i want to go down that route. Ive put myself out there a little bit lately and Im totally ok with being single but i do know ive had some luck with the internet dating scene. I know it could be an ego boost or it could spin the other way and be a huge bummer at times.
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not Worship
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this is the very last thing i have ever read, gootbye
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Post by not Worship on Jan 29, 2019 22:54:13 GMT -5
I rarely post things of my significant other
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not Worship
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this is the very last thing i have ever read, gootbye
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Post by not Worship on Jan 29, 2019 22:54:31 GMT -5
Unless its making fun of them maybe
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Deleted
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2019 23:29:09 GMT -5
Tinder/bumble scares the shit out of me. I remember when I had to lie about how I met my internet boyfriend to my friends so they wouldn’t judge me/think i was going to get murdered and now everyone’s just meeting everyone online.
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not Worship
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this is the very last thing i have ever read, gootbye
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Post by not Worship on Jan 29, 2019 23:32:00 GMT -5
saying you met on tinder or whatever isnt a big thing
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Deleted
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2019 23:34:34 GMT -5
Yes.... I agree.... lol
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squid
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Post by squid on Jan 29, 2019 23:36:16 GMT -5
a guy asked me out on a date but I want him to come to my city. don’t want to go all the way to downtown Vancouver 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ This is why I’m single
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Ass Dan
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Post by Ass Dan on Jan 29, 2019 23:38:54 GMT -5
Last girl I dated had some creepy middle aged man that was obsessed with her. So obsessed that one night he was pounding on the door of my apartment. My roommate opens the door to see who it is and he just barges past straight to my room. Shouting "Come on! Time to go! You need to leave now! You said he meant nothing to you!" She chooses to leave just to defuse the situation. I told her she really needed to cut off all contact with him for her safety. She didn't. After I broke up with her I found out that she'd tried to kiss one of my friends while we were out one night.
I've spent the past 10+ years with one foot out the door everywhere I've lived and I'm moving again in the next 6-8 months so I'm kinda just hoping for a fun fling before I leave town.
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LOTR roleplay fetishist
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Growing. Changing. Farting.
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Post by LOTR roleplay fetishist on Jan 30, 2019 0:03:02 GMT -5
I am bad at this
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rowdiedondown
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Post by rowdiedondown on Jan 30, 2019 1:49:28 GMT -5
Shouting "Come on! Time to go! You need to leave now! You said he meant nothing to you!" She chooses to leave just to defuse the situation. Id question that last part, just sayin
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Ass Dan
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Post by Ass Dan on Jan 30, 2019 2:00:57 GMT -5
Shouting "Come on! Time to go! You need to leave now! You said he meant nothing to you!" She chooses to leave just to defuse the situation. Id question that last part, just sayin Yeah I never quite trusted her.
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boooaaaa
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Post by boooaaaa on Jan 30, 2019 2:23:20 GMT -5
SOA-Girl Problems comes to mind just reading through this thread. Y'all some virgin ass mofos!
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not Worship
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this is the very last thing i have ever read, gootbye
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Post by not Worship on Feb 11, 2019 15:34:35 GMT -5
Had a coffee date w my future wife today this came back 2 months later if u luv something let it go
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ITID
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Post by ITID on Feb 11, 2019 16:16:48 GMT -5
There a reason y'all failed to tell me the secret to this shit was to stop being depressed and leave my house?
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djilo91
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Post by djilo91 on Feb 11, 2019 16:18:24 GMT -5
There a reason y'all failed to tell me the secret to this shit was to stop being depressed and leave my house? Worked for me
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Deleted
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Post by Deleted on Feb 11, 2019 16:18:47 GMT -5
we all have to come to that conclusion ourselves. tough love or something.
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ITID
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Post by ITID on Feb 11, 2019 16:25:07 GMT -5
#toughlovelife is a mess of a hashtag...
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Top Rope Swanton
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these muchachos know what's up
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Post by Top Rope Swanton on Feb 14, 2019 18:10:10 GMT -5
I am totally indifferent about Valentine’s day. Im just as alone today as any other day, and just as happy or sad as any other day. It could be the other side of the coin and I could be in a stale relationship, or even a toxic one. I guess I’m content, yet tonight would be a perfect night to go try to pick up chicks who just want to make out for a bit. Eh.
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Aaron
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Post by Aaron on Feb 14, 2019 18:47:10 GMT -5
10 year wedding anniversary in June, 18th valentine’s day today. We fight like any regular ass people and still have dope times together, sex is still great, etc, etc, etc. I’m happy.
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stephanie
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Post by stephanie on Feb 16, 2019 22:42:20 GMT -5
I've been talking to the same person for months. I feel pretty dumb as they're always "too busy" to hang out or "didn't think i wanted to hang out with them" or "insert other lame excuse." We talk every day but NEVER and i mean absolutely never see each other, despite living maybe 5-10 minutes apart. I'm starting to realize that I'm being kept around as a just in case thing or something to that effect. Fuck me.
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Brah-lie
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 16, 2019 22:47:29 GMT -5
People like that are the worst and should be avoided at all costs, yung- I had a similar situation with the young woman I was “talking to”... fuck being someone’s back up plan.
Also, if you’re “talking to” someone for more than a few weeks and they don’t want to meet up, that’s a huge red flag that they’re probably a timewaster.
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stephanie
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Post by stephanie on Feb 16, 2019 22:59:41 GMT -5
Yeah, I was pretty certain that I was just wasting time, but I'm stubborn sometimes.
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Brah-lie
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 16, 2019 23:06:48 GMT -5
Usually the people that do that type of stuff are damaged, so it’s probably for the best even though it might not seem that way now.
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Ass Dan
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Post by Ass Dan on Feb 17, 2019 7:11:08 GMT -5
wen't on another shitty date with no chemistry and little attraction. To make matters worse I was experiencing sharp stomach pain through the whole thing.
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Post by Thin Lizzy Gulag Graduate on Feb 17, 2019 21:59:15 GMT -5
After this weekend the lady that appeared in my life is probably gonna be a permanent staple for the foreseeable future. She’s beyond out of my league in the looks department, it’s downright hard to comprehend. Dangerously smart too. We’ll see as the walls come down how things mesh I guess. We get on super well so I’m feeling positive.
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Ass Dan
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Post by Ass Dan on Feb 17, 2019 22:23:57 GMT -5
No benefit to doubting yourself. She wants you and that's all that matters.
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