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Post by ITID on Feb 24, 2019 5:50:37 GMT -5
She's cute. You're cuter sticking to beanies and leg days.
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Post by ass eyes on Feb 24, 2019 6:03:00 GMT -5
Yeah, I guess. I have absolutely no interest and don't know how to get that across without jeopardizing a friendship. Most women I'm attracted to are "earthy", no makeup, grey hairs, and have stress lines/wrinkles. I'm married anyway and she fucking knows that.
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Post by ITID on Feb 24, 2019 6:14:24 GMT -5
Yeah, I guess. I have absolutely no interest and don't know how to get that across without jeopardizing a friendship. Most women I'm attracted to are "earthy", no makeup, grey hairs, and have stress lines/wrinkles. I'm married anyway and she fucking knows that. Honestly, what I've been dealing with lately I've been able to shut down with some variation of "I'm not emotionally available and I'm not here to fuck up your space." Knowing you're happily married, I guess go with "I'm not going to jeopardize our peer group(and my legal family) for what you're looking for."
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Post by sarahohio on Feb 24, 2019 7:51:56 GMT -5
Yeah, I guess. I have absolutely no interest and don't know how to get that across without jeopardizing a friendship. Most women I'm attracted to are "earthy", no makeup, grey hairs, and have stress lines/wrinkles. I'm married anyway and she fucking knows that. Honestly, what I've been dealing with lately I've been able to shut down with some variation of "I'm not emotionally available and I'm not here to fuck up your space." Knowing you're happily married, I guess go with "I'm not going to jeopardize our peer group(and my legal family) for what you're looking for." straight up remind her you're married and you're not comfortable with the communication. worrying about hurting your friendship over your wife isn't worth it. it could fuck up or cause issues with your marriage.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 10:21:52 GMT -5
I mean what is she saying when she’s sliding into the DMs?
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Post by ass eyes on Feb 24, 2019 10:46:09 GMT -5
Questions a 24 year old would ask when interested, I’d assume. General occupation questions, wanting to come along when I travel, interests, name calling, messaging me at 2am multiple times with the “Sup”. Just being way more direct post-fiancé. I’m thinking she’s looking for a reaction because she probably has a couple guys she does this to. I have no evidence of that though and I’m definitely not going to ask around.
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Post by Thin Lizzy Gulag Graduate on Feb 24, 2019 10:46:33 GMT -5
I blocked at least 5 people on grindr today that wanted me to smoke meth with them. (I thought I was posting in "gay shit" but whatever this is a fitting place too) If its free I don’t understand why you’re being so ungrateful.
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Post by jonsetsfire on Feb 24, 2019 10:49:41 GMT -5
I got bumble on a whim lastweek. matched up and chatted with this rlly rad Therapist chick. first time going on a date tonight since getting sober and it was a really good experience. I wasnt nervous at all which is surprising. She was really pretty and easy to talk to. We parted ways and it didnt feel amazing but it was a good experience. We only chatted for about an hour because we had other things going on but I get a message 30min after that said in a nice way that she wasnt interested in a second date. That she didnt feel a connection. I really appreciated that and it felt healthy. I asked if there was a particular reason or just not a feeling and she said " Not really? Couldnt tell ya, haha just not feeling a connection".... And so said fair enough! i thanked her for meeting up and the conversation and that was that... Dont get me wrong my EGO hurt for a few hours but it was actually a good thing. It still hurts actually because i just want a reason, like my nose is crooked or because my backstory is fucked up or something. not just because of an hour connection in a super well lit PIE cafe. Any insight board? Also the more i think about it she didnt know what twin peaks was or any movies or entertainment or music and asked what MAGA was and brought up HOBO JOHNSON. It was probably for the best because i def overlook little things like that... She was super smart and pretty and those things can blur any sort of mutual interests we may or may not have and Id rather have some mutual interests tbh... Just kinda stream of consciousness. sorry folks How smart can she possibly be if she didn't know what Twin Peaks or MAGA are? Dodged a bullet, bro.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 10:53:41 GMT -5
Questions a 24 year old would ask when interested, I’d assume. General occupation questions, wanting to come along when I travel, interests, name calling, messaging me at 2am multiple times with the “Sup”. Just being way more direct post-fiancé. I’m thinking she’s looking for a reaction because she probably has a couple guys she does this to. I have no evidence of that though and I’m definitely not going to ask around. Oh yah damn I just wouldn’t respond or just like respond back after every six messages with an emoji until she took the hint.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 10:54:23 GMT -5
Or do a bf/wife bomb like constantly
“Yah my wife and I love x too!”
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Post by ass eyes on Feb 24, 2019 11:03:33 GMT -5
Or do a bf/wife bomb like constantly “Yah my wife and I love x too!” Oh, I’ve definitely been playing dumb and keeping the responses short. This isn’t the first time something like this has happened though. I’ve never had this issue before the wedding ring though. I feel like it’s some weird game people play.
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Post by troycockblow on Feb 24, 2019 11:33:43 GMT -5
Or do a bf/wife bomb like constantly “Yah my wife and I love x too!” Oh, I’ve definitely been playing dumb and keeping the responses short. This isn’t the first time something like this has happened though. I’ve never had this issue before the wedding ring though. I feel like it’s some weird game people play. Just cut communication - she don't need an explanation. She is crossing boundaries and she knows it - its cool, but you obviously aren't taking the bait and she gonna have to deal with it. Just maintain a respectful distance. In a recently similar incident, my wife was being pursued by one of the narco kids out front of our house. Real nice dood, good looking, friendly, etc. She is bright as fuck and makes friends easily - she wanted to hang with him and make friends. She was also interested in what the deal is with all underground narco shit here (we live in Rio and its real heavy with police violence - last week the cops rolled in and shot 16 young black kids in my neighborhood alone. We had 9 tanks occupying the neighborhood some weeks before that. Shit even got reported on NPR). Anyways, she wanted to make friends and humanize him and shit. The narco kids can get treated real cold by folks sometimes. Anyways, long story short she invited him to have a coffee in the afternoon. He responded that he wanted to take her dancing and got all "24-year-old-me inquisitive" with her. She told him she ain't interested and he responded with some shit like, "hey, just live life." She reiterated her disinterest, and now just sort of cold stares as we walk by him EVERYDAY in front of our house. It was pretty awkward for a week, but he got the idea real quick. Now we chat and he gifts us bud here and there, but he is not crossing any boundaries. You gotta establish a limit or that shit is going to get messy, srsly. She cute as fuck, btw. But, whatever.
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Post by killthekool on Feb 24, 2019 11:54:26 GMT -5
Ass Eyes are you married to the game?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 12:00:04 GMT -5
He's married to the board. Like all of us.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 12:20:35 GMT -5
I'm so fucking single
I got my ass dumped on text last friday
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 24, 2019 12:39:22 GMT -5
I'm so fucking single I got my ass dumped on text last friday You’re now in a relationship with board, and it’s serious.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 13:08:05 GMT -5
Sorry my primary relationship is with the girl board but I got room for a side piece
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Post by ass eyes on Feb 24, 2019 13:14:48 GMT -5
I’m married, however I’m still attracted to people, but I think that’s just human nature. I’ve never acted out or even thought for a second about cheating on my wife.
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Post by ass eyes on Feb 24, 2019 13:22:11 GMT -5
Tell your wife this person is subtlety flirting with you now, so she doesn't find out on her own. We joke about it. I showed her the video last night of said girl eating ramen with her titties literally popping out. I think she just wants general male attention.
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 24, 2019 13:31:51 GMT -5
Sorry my primary relationship is with the girl board but I got room for a side piece Nice, as long as you address this board as “Daddy”, it will be cool.
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 24, 2019 13:33:46 GMT -5
Tell your wife this person is subtlety flirting with you now, so she doesn't find out on her own. We joke about it. I showed her the video last night of said girl eating ramen with her titties literally popping out. I think she just wants general male attention. True story- a lot of people go to extreme lengths to get attention these days.
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Post by ass eyes on Feb 24, 2019 13:36:03 GMT -5
Overt displays of sexuality are the worst ways to get my attention. I’ll look, but why are you doing this?
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 24, 2019 13:47:27 GMT -5
Seriously- I always shake my head when I see these kinds of posts. Much rather have an intelligent conversation or discover common ground than just see a set up fake seductive pic, it’s lame.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 13:51:18 GMT -5
Tell your wife this person is subtlety flirting with you now, so she doesn't find out on her own. We joke about it. I showed her the video last night of said girl eating ramen with her titties literally popping out. I think she just wants general male attention. Joke's on you because that's actually the traditional way to eat ramen.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 13:54:14 GMT -5
Lmao you guys
Men on the Internet: post a titty pic. Also men on the Internet: BUT NOT LIKE THAT.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 13:55:07 GMT -5
Sorry my primary relationship is with the girl board but I got room for a side piece Nice, as long as you address this board as “Daddy”, it will be cool. don't tell me what to do tho
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Post by ass eyes on Feb 24, 2019 13:56:16 GMT -5
Naw, I’ve never asked for a titty pic in my adult years. I have no issues with nudity, but if you’re being obnoxious about it, that’s a huge turn off.
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 24, 2019 14:28:34 GMT -5
Nice, as long as you address this board as “Daddy”, it will be cool. don't tell me what to do tho You’ll be alright. 🤓 Naw, I’ve never asked for a titty pic in my adult years. I have no issues with nudity, but if you’re being obnoxious about it, that’s a huge turn off. Same- even back in my 20s I never asked for nudes yet was blessed with them regularly. Sex is cool but at this stage of the game I’m looking for someone who can stimulate my mind.
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Post by jimmyjump on Feb 24, 2019 15:16:20 GMT -5
I have something right now unlike anything before, like it feels like something out of fiction. Very grateful to have met her.
Someone I saw briefly last fall doesn’t follow me on IG but is creeping my stories and that makes me very uncomfortable.
Also I have literally never asked for a nude.
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Post by Top Rope Swanton on Feb 24, 2019 15:25:05 GMT -5
I'm so fucking single I got my ass dumped on text last friday That really sucks. He clearly has some issues if it can't be face-to-face regardless of the situation. But at least very glad to see you back posting on Board
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