not Worship
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Post by not Worship on Feb 25, 2019 11:12:44 GMT -5
Had a coffee date w my future wife today this came back 2 months later if u luv something let it go update: we're p much dating
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rowdiedondown
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Post by rowdiedondown on Feb 25, 2019 12:13:51 GMT -5
I'm 4 March Pisces gals. Maybe I gotta get back on one of the apps Im a pisces too. march 13 here. Ive never dated another pisces. I feel like the sensitivity level of the household would burst some pipes Pisces too, yeah would def depend on risimg sign, probably a shit show though
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Post by Deleted on Feb 25, 2019 12:21:22 GMT -5
Maybe some tips for Scorpio
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Post by Deleted on Feb 25, 2019 14:39:40 GMT -5
It's pisces season gals. Let's feel all the the things. I've been off all the apps since Friday and so far it feels good
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Percussionist Foster Grant
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Post by Percussionist Foster Grant on Feb 25, 2019 14:50:33 GMT -5
I kinda gave up trying to meet women. I've been spending time with this tattoo artist girl I was friends with/dated on-and-off for years, but she's nuts. She's one of those people who feels like they're not living their best life if there's not some dramatic shit going on.
I'll admit that she's been dealt a pretty rough hand as of late: lost her house and dog in the Northern California fires, her "grandma" passed away last month (grandma is her ex-husbands grandma, not hers...?), she got fired in September from the shop she moved out from Florida to work at. It's made just trying to be friends and spend time together difficult because I'm happy to be there for her but once it turns into official "woe is me" hours and she's leaning on me like I'm her boyfriend, I feel like it's time to set boundaries again.
She got pissed at me on Friday night because I wen't home without her and she had to "walk home alone"... despite the fact that she makes that "walk home alone" 8-10 times a month without me. We haven't spoken since and I'm not in any real hurry to break the silence.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 25, 2019 14:54:30 GMT -5
It's pisces season gals. Let's feel all the the things. I've been off all the apps since Friday and so far it feels good My birthday is in 2 days and I don't feel shit
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Post by Deleted on Feb 25, 2019 15:12:48 GMT -5
Happy birthday though :)
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Brah-lie
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 26, 2019 8:02:10 GMT -5
I turn 40 April 3rd- bang bang, Aries gang.
I’m old as fuck, and I’ve accepted it.
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troycockblow
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Post by troycockblow on Feb 26, 2019 8:51:14 GMT -5
I kinda gave up trying to meet women. I've been spending time with this tattoo artist girl I was friends with/dated on-and-off for years, but she's nuts. She's one of those people who feels like they're not living their best life if there's not some dramatic shit going on. I'll admit that she's been dealt a pretty rough hand as of late: lost her house and dog in the Northern California fires, her "grandma" passed away last month (grandma is her ex-husbands grandma, not hers...?), she got fired in September from the shop she moved out from Florida to work at. It's made just trying to be friends and spend time together difficult because I'm happy to be there for her but once it turns into official "woe is me" hours and she's leaning on me like I'm her boyfriend, I feel like it's time to set boundaries again. She got pissed at me on Friday night because I wen't home without her and she had to "walk home alone"... despite the fact that she makes that "walk home alone" 8-10 times a month without me. We haven't spoken since and I'm not in any real hurry to break the silence. Sorry to be blunt, but this sounds like a nightmare. Look out for yourself here and be careful.
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Post by Thin Lizzy Gulag Graduate on Feb 26, 2019 10:20:15 GMT -5
I turn 40 April 3rd- bang bang, Aries gang. I’m old as fuck, and I’ve accepted it. Girl I’m seeing shares your birthday. It’d be cool if she was turning 40.
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Percussionist Foster Grant
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Post by Percussionist Foster Grant on Feb 26, 2019 11:01:06 GMT -5
I kinda gave up trying to meet women. I've been spending time with this tattoo artist girl I was friends with/dated on-and-off for years, but she's nuts. She's one of those people who feels like they're not living their best life if there's not some dramatic shit going on. I'll admit that she's been dealt a pretty rough hand as of late: lost her house and dog in the Northern California fires, her "grandma" passed away last month (grandma is her ex-husbands grandma, not hers...?), she got fired in September from the shop she moved out from Florida to work at. It's made just trying to be friends and spend time together difficult because I'm happy to be there for her but once it turns into official "woe is me" hours and she's leaning on me like I'm her boyfriend, I feel like it's time to set boundaries again. She got pissed at me on Friday night because I wen't home without her and she had to "walk home alone"... despite the fact that she makes that "walk home alone" 8-10 times a month without me. We haven't spoken since and I'm not in any real hurry to break the silence. Sorry to be blunt, but this sounds like a nightmare. Look out for yourself here and be careful. I appreciate the kind words. It should be fine. I don't really plan on hanging out with her much, if at all, in the near future. She's extremely toxic and super self-absorbed, and although it's completely understandable that somebody should be upset and need support when they lose their house, pet, loved one, etc she takes it to the furthest extreme and expects people to basically call in sick for work and drop everything in a second if she feels like going out or something. And if you don't do that, she considers you a bad friend who does nothing for her. I thought we could hang out with the understanding that we shouldn't be anything beyond friends but she's had a difficult time processing that.
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Percussionist Foster Grant
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Post by Percussionist Foster Grant on Feb 26, 2019 11:02:20 GMT -5
I should have seen the red flags when she told me she was originally living in Florida, let's be honest.
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Brah-lie
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 26, 2019 11:35:51 GMT -5
I turn 40 April 3rd- bang bang, Aries gang. I’m old as fuck, and I’ve accepted it. Girl I’m seeing shares your birthday. It’d be cool if she was turning 40. Nice- turning 40 is weird, I’ve officially accepted the fact that I’m old now tho, hah.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 27, 2019 12:00:40 GMT -5
Social media has ruined dating for sure. The ability to cast a wide net and just sift through masses of people for someone you'll never find suitable because you've developed a "flavor of the week" complex. Or just the need to feed your ego via swipes and never checking your inbox filled with over-stimulated suitors. I can't complain much because maybe this is one ingredient in reducing the global population. What a time to be alive. You hit the nail on the head with this one, eyes- before all these dating apps people would meet each other, then date. It was definitely much easier to meet people back then. The 5 Years That Changed Dating: When Tinder became available to all smartphone users in 2013, it ushered in a new era in the history of romance
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Percussionist Foster Grant
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Post by Percussionist Foster Grant on Feb 27, 2019 12:03:06 GMT -5
Girl from a few posts earlier breaks the silence and texts me last night to say, "Human League "I'm only human" playing in rite aid rn" Okay..?
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Brah-lie
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Post by Brah-lie on Feb 27, 2019 12:21:36 GMT -5
Great article that sums it up perfectly, duck- nice find.
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Ass Dan
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Post by Ass Dan on Feb 27, 2019 16:18:26 GMT -5
For years now I've quit talking to girls when I feel like I'm the one driving the entire conversation. It helps me not be annoying but I'm starting to think it's probably also torpedoed things that could have gone somewhere.
What's everyone else's stance on this?
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Percussionist Foster Grant
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Post by Percussionist Foster Grant on Feb 27, 2019 16:45:54 GMT -5
For years now I've quit talking to girls when I feel like I'm the one driving the entire conversation. It helps me not be annoying but I'm starting to think it's probably also torpedoed things that could have gone somewhere. What's everyone else's stance on this? I feel like I just somehow gravitate toward really boring women... for whatever reason. Or where I live is just filled with them..? I don't know. I can honestly count on one hand the number of girls I've dated in 10 years who had tangible interests, hobbies, goals, motivating factors, etc. I feel like I'm always guiding the conversation simply because they have absolutely nothing to weigh in with, no stories to tell or no information to offer. It's frustrating. I took a girl out in October a couple nights before I flew out to Tokyo and she brought up studying abroad in Europe for a semester, which was cool because she sounded like she'd lived a bit and stayed active. The date was great until I mentioned having people over a couple weeks earlier and that one of my friends invited his coke dealer over to my house, who I ended up having to kick out. She asked if I do drugs and when I told her "no" she wen't from being down to hang out after dinner to being tired and heading home. A few weeks later I found out through mutual friends that a) her ex-boyfriend dealt drugs as a primary means of income b) she still dabbles in coke fairly often and c) she thought I was being "judgemental" for not being open to doing drugs. lol kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay
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Post by Thin Lizzy Gulag Graduate on Feb 27, 2019 22:28:44 GMT -5
For years now I've quit talking to girls when I feel like I'm the one driving the entire conversation. It helps me not be annoying but I'm starting to think it's probably also torpedoed things that could have gone somewhere. What's everyone else's stance on this? Girl I’m sorta seeing now is like this. She’s super driven and her career is definitely the passion in her life...but she’s not keen to watch obscure documentaries and I highly doubt her internet browser on her phone has multiple Wikipedia tabs open. We cool for now but I don’t think I could ever be serious with someone who doesn’t actively have a consuming hobby and insatiable appetite for learning.
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area51
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Post by area51 on Feb 27, 2019 22:30:01 GMT -5
In have no idea what I walked into. You guys are wild.
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Top Rope Swanton
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these muchachos know what's up
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Post by Top Rope Swanton on Feb 27, 2019 22:52:51 GMT -5
For years now I've quit talking to girls when I feel like I'm the one driving the entire conversation. It helps me not be annoying but I'm starting to think it's probably also torpedoed things that could have gone somewhere. What's everyone else's stance on this? Girl I’m sorta seeing now is like this. She’s super driven and her career is definitely the passion in her life...but she’s not keen to watch obscure documentaries and I highly doubt her internet browser on her phone has multiple Wikipedia tabs open. We cool for now but I don’t think I could ever be serious with someone who doesn’t actively have a consuming hobby and insatiable appetite for learning. I was kinda seeing a girl recently who seemed to complement me in this lifelong-learner aspect. Always having cool books around, watching smart movies, etc. But when I got to really break through the wall and know her it was a total posturing move to appear intelligent and cool. Not that she wasn’t, but out of deep insecurities she would buy books as props and screenshot noir films to cultivate her “aesthetic” (as the Tumblr kids say—another rant entirely) but all the while she was really just into getting fucked up and eating candy while smoking cigs in her bed watching shitty reality tv. Never even venturing out into the world; rather, she got McDonalds UberEats’d to her door every night. The laziest shit ever as far as I’m concerned. I felt so scammed by it all just because I didn’t register the mental health issues and deep insecurities sooner. I’d much rather know upfront if a chick is “basic” or not than have to discover that it’s all a front.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 27, 2019 22:53:45 GMT -5
You guys sound like those dudes we (women) date in our early twen'ties who think they can’t find someone who’s as “intellectual” as them.
Spoiler alert theyre all actually idiots.
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Top Rope Swanton
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these muchachos know what's up
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Post by Top Rope Swanton on Feb 27, 2019 22:54:35 GMT -5
You guys sound like those dudes we (women) date in our early twen'ties who think they can’t find someone who’s as “intellectual” as them. Spoiler alert theyre all actually idiots. My findings exactly.
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area51
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Post by area51 on Feb 27, 2019 22:55:10 GMT -5
Girl I’m sorta seeing now is like this. She’s super driven and her career is definitely the passion in her life...but she’s not keen to watch obscure documentaries and I highly doubt her internet browser on her phone has multiple Wikipedia tabs open. We cool for now but I don’t think I could ever be serious with someone who doesn’t actively have a consuming hobby and insatiable appetite for learning. I was kinda seeing a girl recently who seemed to complement me in this lifelong-learner aspect. Always having cool books around, watching smart movies, etc. But when I got to really break through the wall and know her it was a total posturing move to appear intelligent and cool. Not that she wasn’t, but out of deep insecurities she would buy books as props and screenshot noir films to cultivate her “aesthetic” (as the Tumblr kids say—another rant entirely) but all the while she was really just into getting fucked up and eating candy while smoking cigs in her bed watching shitty reality tv. Never even venturing out into the world; rather, she got McDonalds UberEats’d to her door every night. The laziest shit ever as far as I’m concerned. I felt so scammed by it all just because I didn’t register the mental health issues and deep insecurities sooner. I’d much rather know upfront if a chick is “basic” or not than have to discover that it’s all a front. That’s called faking it til you make it
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novogue
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Post by novogue on Feb 28, 2019 5:21:53 GMT -5
Girl I’m sorta seeing now is like this. She’s super driven and her career is definitely the passion in her life...but she’s not keen to watch obscure documentaries and I highly doubt her internet browser on her phone has multiple Wikipedia tabs open. We cool for now but I don’t think I could ever be serious with someone who doesn’t actively have a consuming hobby and insatiable appetite for learning. What's the correct number of Wikipedia tabs to have open on your phone? Asking for a friend.
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koreangirls
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Post by koreangirls on Feb 28, 2019 6:53:38 GMT -5
For years now I've quit talking to girls when I feel like I'm the one driving the entire conversation. It helps me not be annoying but I'm starting to think it's probably also torpedoed things that could have gone somewhere. What's everyone else's stance on this? Girl I’m sorta seeing now is like this. She’s super driven and her career is definitely the passion in her life...but she’s not keen to watch obscure documentaries and I highly doubt her internet browser on her phone has multiple Wikipedia tabs open. We cool for now but I don’t think I could ever be serious with someone who doesn’t actively have a consuming hobby and insatiable appetite for learning. Hmm, this is kind of a weird and dismissive observation to me, to be honest. You think having an insatiable appetite for learning is reading Wikipedia articles and watching documentaries? Because for me, it's putting in focused effort to learn something, which is really mostly done when you study something. Or if you're doing it on your own, going through a textbook or some other structured presentation of the material that isn't a few paragraphs or a two-hour movie. What does she do? If her job entails a lot of thinking and mental effort, I don't really think you can blame her for not wanting to watch documentaries to unwind. She might already be doing more thinking and learning than someone with a menial or physical job that then learns a bit in their free time, and she might have already put in a ton of effort for her education. I also don't really see the connection between documentaries and learning. I mean, yeah, you do gather some new pieces of information, but you don't become an expert in anything by watching them.
I don't know, man, you know her better and maybe there are other signs that corroborate your conclusion there, but if you got to that by observing her lack of enthusiasm for watching documentaries and reading Wikipedia articles, then I think that's pretty faulty reasoning.
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koreangirls
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Post by koreangirls on Feb 28, 2019 8:20:27 GMT -5
The woman UberEats McDonald’s every night. What’s your take on that? Is this directed at me? Because I wasn't replying to Top Rope Swanton.
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Post by Thin Lizzy Gulag Graduate on Feb 28, 2019 8:25:09 GMT -5
Girl I’m sorta seeing now is like this. She’s super driven and her career is definitely the passion in her life...but she’s not keen to watch obscure documentaries and I highly doubt her internet browser on her phone has multiple Wikipedia tabs open. We cool for now but I don’t think I could ever be serious with someone who doesn’t actively have a consuming hobby and insatiable appetite for learning. Hmm, this is kind of a weird and dismissive observation to me, to be honest. You think having an insatiable appetite for learning is reading Wikipedia articles and watching documentaries? Because for me, it's putting in focused effort to learn something, which is really mostly done when you study something. Or if you're doing it on your own, going through a textbook or some other structured presentation of the material that isn't a few paragraphs or a two-hour movie. What does she do? If her job entails a lot of thinking and mental effort, I don't really think you can blame her for not wanting to watch documentaries to unwind. She might already be doing more thinking and learning than someone with a menial or physical job that then learns a bit in their free time, and she might have already put in a ton of effort for her education. I also don't really see the connection between documentaries and learning. I mean, yeah, you do gather some new pieces of information, but you don't become an expert in anything by watching them.
I don't know, man, you know her better and maybe there are other signs that corroborate your conclusion there, but if you got to that by observing her lack of enthusiasm for watching documentaries and reading Wikipedia articles, then I think that's pretty faulty reasoning.
A totally fair critique. It’s hard to convey nuance in a forum post. Obviously there is not “correct number of Wikipedia tabs” and the statement was mostly tongue in cheek. You’re right in that her job is very demanding and given it’s a passion pursuit she does sorta just turn off afterwords. The things I mentioned are obviously poor indicators. whoever mentioned “men in their twen'ties who think they’re too intellectual” is only half right. Is it a crime that I’m not content with someone whose got no substance outside of their job? Do you feel threatened by people who aren’t willing to settle for basic? I’m trying to find a way to say this without sounding like an asshole...Most people turn their fucking brains off and just stumble through life - a reality that should be familiar to people who post on a fucking hardcore forum. We were all drawn to this music because of dissatisfaction with, among other things, that fact. How many people here have screamed along to another night in America by the suicide file? Maybe Top Rope Swanton and I just need to get married cause apparently y’all just wanna defend boring people.
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koreangirls
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Post by koreangirls on Feb 28, 2019 8:30:42 GMT -5
Hmm, this is kind of a weird and dismissive observation to me, to be honest. You think having an insatiable appetite for learning is reading Wikipedia articles and watching documentaries? Because for me, it's putting in focused effort to learn something, which is really mostly done when you study something. Or if you're doing it on your own, going through a textbook or some other structured presentation of the material that isn't a few paragraphs or a two-hour movie. What does she do? If her job entails a lot of thinking and mental effort, I don't really think you can blame her for not wanting to watch documentaries to unwind. She might already be doing more thinking and learning than someone with a menial or physical job that then learns a bit in their free time, and she might have already put in a ton of effort for her education. I also don't really see the connection between documentaries and learning. I mean, yeah, you do gather some new pieces of information, but you don't become an expert in anything by watching them.
I don't know, man, you know her better and maybe there are other signs that corroborate your conclusion there, but if you got to that by observing her lack of enthusiasm for watching documentaries and reading Wikipedia articles, then I think that's pretty faulty reasoning.
A totally fair critique. It’s hard to convey nuance in a forum post. Obviously there is not “correct number of Wikipedia tabs” and the statement was mostly tongue in cheek. You’re right in that her job is very demanding and given it’s a passion pursuit she does sorta just turn off afterwords. The things I mentioned are obviously poor indicators. whoever mentioned “men in their twen'ties who think they’re too intellectual” is only half right. Is it a crime that I’m not content with someone whose got no substance outside of their job? Do you feel threatened by people who aren’t willing to settle for basic? I’m trying to find a way to say this without sounding like an asshole...Most people turn their fucking brains off and just stumble through life - a reality that should be familiar to people who post on a fucking hardcore forum. We were all drawn to this music because of dissatisfaction with, among other things, that fact. How many people here have screamed along to another night in America by the suicide file? Maybe Top Rope Swanton and I just need to get married cause apparently y’all just wanna defend boring people. Yeah, fair enough. I get what you're saying and I agree with you, especially with the substance outside of their job part. From your post, I just wasn't sure if you were maybe jumping to conclusions about her.
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Ass Dan
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Post by Ass Dan on Feb 28, 2019 9:05:08 GMT -5
You guys sound like those dudes we (women) date in our early twen'ties who think they can’t find someone who’s as “intellectual” as them. Spoiler alert theyre all actually idiots. I am definitely not looking for “intellectual” conversation I just want an active participant.
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