Love life (ITT: Chalie Danger Sex Play)

[Brah-lie]

Dating in 2018 is like using your hands as shovels and digging through a mountainous pile of turds in hopes of finding a gem.

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Jul 24, 2018 12:51:18 GMT -5 @geneweenondrugs said:

I could have sworn I used to see you mention it in the B9 threads. My mistake, neither here nor there

hes gay and he knows it.

[MMST3K]

Jul 24, 2018 23:09:35 GMT -5 Brah-lie said:

Dating in 2018 is like using ya hands as shovels and digging through a mountainous pile of turds in hopes of finding a gem.

[Brah-lie]

It’s not quite that bad- holy shit.

[quit_everything]

Jul 24, 2018 23:20:26 GMT -5 @machoinsecurity said:

Jul 24, 2018 12:51:18 GMT -5 @geneweenondrugs said:

I could have sworn I used to see you mention it in the B9 threads. My mistake, neither here nor there

hes gay and he knows it.

I'll fuck you 'till you love me

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Jul 25, 2018 10:08:03 GMT -5 quit_everything said:

Jul 24, 2018 23:20:26 GMT -5 @machoinsecurity said:

hes gay and he knows it.

I'll fuck ya 'till ya love me

see? he cant resist this.

[beckybreach]

I know texting is basically a necessity for dating but I can't stand it guys. It's a big reason I don't bother with dating apps.

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Jul 25, 2018 11:27:29 GMT -5 beckybreach said:

I know texting is basically a necessity for dating but I can't stand it guys. It's a big reason I don't bother with dating apps.

i've told myself that whatever relationship i get into next, i'm refusing to do the all-day text conversation.

[stephanie]

Jul 25, 2018 11:27:29 GMT -5 beckybreach said:

I know texting is basically a necessity for dating but I can't stand it guys. It's a big reason I don't bother with dating apps.

I just hate how some people want ya to be texting back and forth 24/7. Like how can anyone possibly be on their phone that much, it's tiring to me.

[beckybreach]

Exactly. I don't want to already be sick of the person before we even see each other.

[Deleted]

unless you're dating a 20 something with a boring desk job, ya wont have to worry about that. the last girl I seriously dated hated that my work consists of frequent air/road travel because I wouldn't be able to communicate with her as much. so unattractive. it was one of the first things I noticed about her and it turned me off.

[Deleted]

i dealt with this issue a lot with my ex. we had just started long-distance and she felt i wasn't paying enough attention at the time.

i was taking 15 credits, interning 30 hours a week, and had a teaching assistantship. i'm sorry i didn't respond to whatever stupid fucking meme you sent.

if i could throw my phone into the ocean, i would.

[Brah-lie]

The all day texting is definitely a deal breaker- not only do I not have time for it but it’s fucking exhausting and drains my life blood. Just call me at the end of the day and talk like a normal person.

[Deleted]

I hate feeling like I have to "check in" with someone else. no, you check in with mommy, not some chick.

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Jul 25, 2018 11:53:58 GMT -5 @machoinsecurity said:

I hate feeling like I have to "check in" with someone else. no, ya check in with mommy, not some chick.

the fucking WORST. please don't ask me how my day is going at fucking 11:00am because you're jinxing me like the fucking mush you are.

y'all got me riled up with this topic lol

[Brah-lie]

Glad to see I’m not the only one that hates that shit. I can deal with a few random texts throughout the day but the “we have to text 24/7” is seriously cancer.

[Yung Nick]

Texting all day sucks because then you don't really have anything to talk about. You go to hangout and there's nothing to talk about because you've literally been talking all day. It's like it shortens the life expectancy of the relationship.

[chaospouch]

I just don't get the all day texting BS. My ex would text me allllllll fucking day long, then when I was finally done working and we could hang, I literally had nothing to talk about because she kept me updated by the minute from when she woke up till then.

If I had a job where a cell phone wasn't a necessity, I would without a doubt get the cheapest flip phone (alcatel) and drop out of modern life completely

[not Worship]

i got "broken up" with by someone who i wasnt even dating the other day because i didnt text them and ask them where they were

[Yung Nick]

that, exactly. It kills any sort of way to start small talk or conversation. It's like a continuation of ya texting convo but in real life, so it turns into "haha", "yeah", "oh cool!"

[not Worship]

my old coworker would call her husband every day at lunch and talk to him for like an hour about her day so far. like yo waht the fuck do you talk about when you get home? nothing even really happens to me on a daily basis that is interesting to discuss more than like 5 minutes when i get home

[Deleted]

i will purposely withhold anything noteworthy / cool / etc. from friends, family, significant others, and so on just so there is something to talk about in person.

technology is the devil. the amish have the right idea.

[chaospouch]

Jul 25, 2018 15:57:56 GMT -5 not Worship said:

my old coworker would call her husband every day at lunch and talk to him for like an hour about her day so far. like yo waht the fuck do ya talk about when ya get home? nothing even really happens to me on a daily basis that is interesting to discuss more than like 5 minutes when i get home

Dude, my girl now tries to do this. We work different shifts, so she'll call me at noon when she gets up and I'm already six hours into my day. Asking about my day like what I do is super exciting (it's not). My role in the convo is to then ask her about her day. "Oh, just woke up". Coooooooooooool.

Sometimes I don't answer and just pretend that I was too busy

FOH with small talk

[Sorley Boy]

I'm surprised I agree with brah life about something. My gf is pretty good about texting but the rest of my life is full of people who just talk at me daily about their silly lives and apinions. I don't want to put down my work to talk with you about the trade deadline or your trip to Nashville. Nobody is that interesting.

[waste of space]

I am not very attentive to my phone, which does not help with relationships. Will never be an all-day texter, and I could never make it work with someone who insists on this.

[beckybreach]

Nobody is interesting enough for anyone to need an all day play by play of what's happening.

[quit_everything]

i came to the conclusion a long time ago that i am not interesting enough to hold text conversations all day and luckily my gf works 47+ hours a week so its not an issue

[not Worship]

Jul 25, 2018 16:26:33 GMT -5 chaospouch said:

Jul 25, 2018 15:57:56 GMT -5 not Worship said:

my old coworker would call her husband every day at lunch and talk to him for like an hour about her day so far. like yo waht the fuck do ya talk about when ya get home? nothing even really happens to me on a daily basis that is interesting to discuss more than like 5 minutes when i get home

muchacho, my girl now tries to do this. We work different shifts, so she'll call me at noon when she gets up and I'm already six hours into my day. Asking about my day like what I do is super exciting (it's not). My role in the convo is to then ask her about her day. "Oh, just woke up". Coooooooooooool.

Sometimes I don't answer and just pretend that I was too busy

FOH with small talk

i have firmly established that i will not talk to anyone on the phone for more than like 5 minutes unless it's important. only time i ever had to have extended convos was when i dated my college girlfriend long distance and that shit was like once every week/two weeks

[not Worship]

Whats up with women drawing like clown makeup on their eyes? Like the little dots on their upper cheek bones with lines connecting it? Haha

[Deleted]

Been with the same gal for 6 years.

I need a lot of time to myself and we don't text all day every day. We're opposites in a lot of ways and it just makes life more fun to explore the different interests and passions we have.