Love life (ITT: Chalie Danger Sex Play)

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Aug 13, 2018 9:07:42 GMT -5 zachbraffscock said:

Been in a relationship for nearly three years. I just don't know, most of the time I don't feel into it, there's constant arguing and shit but when we fight and discuss breaking up I don't have the balls to follow through with it. Same with her. I don't know how this will all resolve.

Honestly it sounds like you should both let each other go. Animosity is not something you want in a relationship. 

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sounds like you're wasting your time with each other.

[rowdiedondown]

Reading about love addict/ love avoidant dynamics is like reading a generalized impersonal biography. This shit is crazy

[svejk]

posting 4 l8r

[FEMA Sniper]

Aug 13, 2018 9:07:42 GMT -5 zachbraffscock said:

Been in a relationship for nearly three years. I just don't know, most of the time I don't feel into it, there's constant arguing and shit but when we fight and discuss breaking up I don't have the balls to follow through with it. Same with her. I don't know how this will all resolve.

No way to live my man. End it. I tried to salvage too many relationships and it never worked. Now any sign of bullshit, I pull the plug.

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Aug 14, 2018 1:03:31 GMT -5 FEMA Sniper said:

Aug 13, 2018 9:07:42 GMT -5 zachbraffscock said:

Been in a relationship for nearly three years. I just don't know, most of the time I don't feel into it, there's constant arguing and shit but when we fight and discuss breaking up I don't have the balls to follow through with it. Same with her. I don't know how this will all resolve.

No way to live my man. End it. I tried to salvage too many relationships and it never worked. Now any sign of bullshit, I pull the plug.

Thanks for your kind words guys.

[Radiation]

Aug 13, 2018 9:07:42 GMT -5 zachbraffscock said:

Been in a relationship for nearly three years. I just don't know, most of the time I don't feel into it, there's constant arguing and shit but when we fight and discuss breaking up I don't have the balls to follow through with it. Same with her. I don't know how this will all resolve.

Break that shit off homie. It's natural to be hesitant when you love someone and want it to work but at some point you gotta realize it's just making both of you unhappy.

[not Worship]

Aug 13, 2018 8:30:04 GMT -5 @dogmeat said:

is it just me or is the avg girl on bumble way hotter than the avg girl on tinder

not complaining but just something i've noticed

yes, but people on bumble are typically way less interesting and worse at chatting before setting something up

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Aug 14, 2018 9:46:43 GMT -5 not Worship said:

Aug 13, 2018 8:30:04 GMT -5 @dogmeat said:

is it just me or is the avg girl on bumble way hotter than the avg girl on tinder

not complaining but just something i've noticed

yes, but people on bumble are typically way less interesting and worse at chatting before setting something up

That's not true at all in my experience.

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Jul 19, 2018 13:33:35 GMT -5 @dogmeat said:

met my best friend's sister's best friend recently and this girl is so beautiful that i had an immediate panic attack.

said girl broke up with her boyfriend recently, found out last night. started yelling in public like a belligerent animal.

[ass eyes]

Aug 15, 2018 10:48:47 GMT -5 @dogmeat said:

Jul 19, 2018 13:33:35 GMT -5 @dogmeat said:

met my best friend's sister's best friend recently and this girl is so beautiful that i had an immediate panic attack.

said girl broke up with her boyfriend recently, found out last night. started yelling in public like a belligerent animal.

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deadass

[ass eyes]

Was he wearing a fedora?

[not Worship]

satanist dating lol

[jimmyjump]

Bumble is the truth. I didn’t use tinder much to begin with, but in the last day I’ve matched /talked with more people than I ever did on Tinder. Also feel good about myself and definitely ready to do the damn thing, so that’s cool too.

[itii]

Aug 15, 2018 11:28:24 GMT -5 not Worship said:

satanist dating lol

[Percussionist Foster Grant]

I'm single. I had been dating a girl up until mid-April who I ended up really falling for, even though I wasn't sure she was ready to be with someone again until she convinced me she was. I'm a couple years older and (for the most part) have my life sorted out, but she's still sort of... figuring everything out. I'll put a spoiler on the next part, since I'm sure most people don't care.

SPOILER: Click to show

She has a nowhere job, fulfilling orders in a warehouse for an online retailer. She lives with a roommate - who happens to be her brother's baby mama's sister - because she can't afford to live on her own, which is saying something because living costs aren't even extreme here. 95% of her best friends are her current coworkers, the majority of which are unreliable, functioning alcoholics who no call/no show constantly and make her job even more difficult. Her friends who are girls are terrible influences - one is unemployed, living in a house she inherited from dead grandparents. The other, who was actually a friend of mine up until our breakup, has recently been in and out of psychiatric care facilities for depression/suicidle ideation. Her roommate is a drunk who cheats on her boyfriend with guys she meets on Tinder, gets blackout drunk and recently fleed the scene when she crashed her car into a creek while drunk driving. Her friends that are guys are overweight druggies and drunks who likely keep her around because she's a cute girl who they hope eventually lower her standards and sleeps with them.

It's upsetting because, when I met her, it felt like she'd truly had enough and was ready to turn everything around. I bent over backwards for her, attempting to be everything her ex's weren't. I'm talking expensive nights out every weekend, planning trips together, sending flowers to her work when she'd get promoted, cooking dinners for us, concert/show tickets, trying to get to know her friends/family and give them a chance because I know how much they meant to her. I'd even let her do her laundry at my house because her mother flat out told her she couldn't use their washer/dryer anymore. I used to give her the keys to my place so she could hang out there while I was out of town, in case she wanted to get away from her roommate. Basically whatever this girl needed, I was there: Work problems, stress over her abysmal living situation, lack of money, depression/anxiety... I was there. Even after the break-up, I still let her sleep over when she needed to get away from her sketchy roommate, or call at 1:30 AM when something bad happened at work and she was suffering from an anxiety attack.

I'm not sure why I've struggled with this break up so much. She said she wasn't sure about our chemistry, that she still wasn't over her last break-up (the guy she was with for 6+ years who broke up with her just under a year earlier) and that she thought she wanted a relationship but doesn't feel that way now. We got into three arguments over the span of our entire relationship, all of which stemmed from us drinking too much and getting into silly disputes... I'm talking stuff most people would let roll off their back the following morning. I just don't understand why someone would continue picking a life full of bottom feeding, lowest common denominator friends, alcohol, dead end jobs, zero education and no career prospects over a shot at something tangible with a person who's clearly willing to give you the sort of support, stability and encouragement you've lacked most of your life.

Since April, my "love life" has been an abject failure. Within 36 hours of the break up, I got drunk and fooled around with a waitress from my friends restaurant who I eventually discovered was legitimately nuts and has spent time in jail for assaulting an ex, drunk in public, breaking and entering, probation violations, etc. I kept that going for about a month and a half before I finally had to cut her crazy out of my life.

A tattoo artist girl I used to date who moved back from Florida this past spring began sleeping over and we've fooled around on/off, but she gets drunk and tries to start arguments all the time. Seriously constantly. I told her to delete my number this weekend.

I've been spending time with a new girl who's super pretty and nice, but she's a divorcee and seems eager to lock down another serious relationship. I'm not prepared for that sort of thing and it doesn't seem fair to continue spending time with her if we're both looking for entirely different things.

[MMST3K]

Aug 15, 2018 11:59:45 GMT -5 Reverend Bïtch said:

Aug 15, 2018 11:28:24 GMT -5 not Worship said:

satanist dating lol

Desperate times

Honey where do you want that pentagram again?

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Aug 15, 2018 12:22:09 GMT -5 Percussionist Foster Grant said:

I'm single. I had been dating a girl up until mid-April who I ended up really falling for, even though I wasn't sure she was ready to be with someone again until she convinced me she was. I'm a couple years older and (for the most part) have my life sorted out, but she's still sort of... figuring everything out. I'll put a spoiler on the next part, since I'm sure most people don't care.

SPOILER: Click to show

She has a nowhere job, fulfilling orders in a warehouse for an online retailer. She lives with a roommate - who happens to be her brother's baby mama's sister - because she can't afford to live on her own, which is saying something because living costs aren't even extreme here. 95% of her best friends are her current coworkers, the majority of which are unreliable, functioning alcoholics who no call/no show constantly and make her job even more difficult. Her friends who are girls are terrible influences - one is unemployed, living in a house she inherited from dead grandparents. The other, who was actually a friend of mine up until our breakup, has recently been in and out of psychiatric care facilities for depression/suicidle ideation. Her roommate is a drunk who cheats on her boyfriend with guys she meets on Tinder, gets blackout drunk and recently fleed the scene when she crashed her car into a creek while drunk driving. Her friends that are guys are overweight druggies and drunks who likely keep her around because she's a cute girl who they hope eventually lower her standards and sleeps with them.

It's upsetting because, when I met her, it felt like she'd truly had enough and was ready to turn everything around. I bent over backwards for her, attempting to be everything her ex's weren't. I'm talking expensive nights out every weekend, planning trips together, sending flowers to her work when she'd get promoted, cooking dinners for us, concert/show tickets, trying to get to know her friends/family and give them a chance because I know how much they meant to her. I'd even let her do her laundry at my house because her mother flat out told her she couldn't use their washer/dryer anymore. I used to give her the keys to my place so she could hang out there while I was out of town, in case she wanted to get away from her roommate. Basically whatever this girl needed, I was there: Work problems, stress over her abysmal living situation, lack of money, depression/anxiety... I was there. Even after the break-up, I still let her sleep over when she needed to get away from her sketchy roommate, or call at 1:30 AM when something bad happened at work and she was suffering from an anxiety attack.

I'm not sure why I've struggled with this break up so much. She said she wasn't sure about our chemistry, that she still wasn't over her last break-up (the guy she was with for 6+ years who broke up with her just under a year earlier) and that she thought she wanted a relationship but doesn't feel that way now. We got into three arguments over the span of our entire relationship, all of which stemmed from us drinking too much and getting into silly disputes... I'm talking stuff most people would let roll off their back the following morning. I just don't understand why someone would continue picking a life full of bottom feeding, lowest common denominator friends, alcohol, dead end jobs, zero education and no career prospects over a shot at something tangible with a person who's clearly willing to give you the sort of support, stability and encouragement you've lacked most of your life.

Since April, my "love life" has been an abject failure. Within 36 hours of the break up, I got drunk and fooled around with a waitress from my friends restaurant who I eventually discovered was legitimately nuts and has spent time in jail for assaulting an ex, drunk in public, breaking and entering, probation violations, etc. I kept that going for about a month and a half before I finally had to cut her crazy out of my life.

A tattoo artist girl I used to date who moved back from Florida this past spring began sleeping over and we've fooled around on/off, but she gets drunk and tries to start arguments all the time. Seriously constantly. I told her to delete my number this weekend.

I've been spending time with a new girl who's super pretty and nice, but she's a divorcee and seems eager to lock down another serious relationship. I'm not prepared for that sort of thing and it doesn't seem fair to continue spending time with her if we're both looking for entirely different things.

sorry to hear all of that. with the most recent girl, i'd tell her you aren't ready for anything serious right now. a part of me feels like she may understand given her own prior circumstance(s). 

i tried to do the same shit with my most recent ex (being everything her exes weren't) and it got really exhausting really fast and i burnt out quickly which led to our breakup, more or less. 

at the end of the day, it doesn't matter how much you bend over backwards. for some people, it's never enough and you'll just grow really resentful. 

[killthekool]

Wrote down "use tasty biscuit" in my pick up artist journal for when i hit the mall this weekend

[MMST3K]

Aug 15, 2018 12:41:35 GMT -5 killthekool said:

Wrote down "use tasty biscuit" in my pick up artist journal for when i hit the mall this weekend

Hey baby i'll eat you out in the bathroom then lets hit the Sbarro my treat I got a gift card. "hey where you goin".

[eilers]

Been with the current girlfriend for 8 years. Going through a real rough patch and almost ended things a couple times. We're seeing some counselors about it now. Nothing crazy like cheating or anything along those lines...she just assumed we'd be getting married soon while I haven't been completely into the relationship for the past while and don't know we're actually the ones for each other.

Never been in the situation where I'm the one who has considered breaking it off, I'm used to being the one getting dumped. Very weird and difficult being on the other side of the fence.

[MMST3K]

Aug 15, 2018 13:43:33 GMT -5 Reverend Bïtch said:

Aug 15, 2018 12:24:56 GMT -5 MMST3K said:

Honey where do you want that pentagram again?

I legit hate my life

Buck up Jesse we love you.

[ass eyes]

You're pretty attractive and seem super, super nice, so of course weirdos are going to come out the woodwork for that tang. Or do you meet a nice dude and he's freaked out by the fact you're a Satanist?

[Percussionist Foster Grant]

Aug 15, 2018 12:41:28 GMT -5 @dogmeat said:

Aug 15, 2018 12:22:09 GMT -5 Percussionist Foster Grant said:

I'm single. I had been dating a girl up until mid-April who I ended up really falling for, even though I wasn't sure she was ready to be with someone again until she convinced me she was. I'm a couple years older and (for the most part) have my life sorted out, but she's still sort of... figuring everything out. I'll put a spoiler on the next part, since I'm sure most people don't care.

SPOILER: Click to show

She has a nowhere job, fulfilling orders in a warehouse for an online retailer. She lives with a roommate - who happens to be her brother's baby mama's sister - because she can't afford to live on her own, which is saying something because living costs aren't even extreme here. 95% of her best friends are her current coworkers, the majority of which are unreliable, functioning alcoholics who no call/no show constantly and make her job even more difficult. Her friends who are girls are terrible influences - one is unemployed, living in a house she inherited from dead grandparents. The other, who was actually a friend of mine up until our breakup, has recently been in and out of psychiatric care facilities for depression/suicidle ideation. Her roommate is a drunk who cheats on her boyfriend with guys she meets on Tinder, gets blackout drunk and recently fleed the scene when she crashed her car into a creek while drunk driving. Her friends that are guys are overweight druggies and drunks who likely keep her around because she's a cute girl who they hope eventually lower her standards and sleeps with them.

It's upsetting because, when I met her, it felt like she'd truly had enough and was ready to turn everything around. I bent over backwards for her, attempting to be everything her ex's weren't. I'm talking expensive nights out every weekend, planning trips together, sending flowers to her work when she'd get promoted, cooking dinners for us, concert/show tickets, trying to get to know her friends/family and give them a chance because I know how much they meant to her. I'd even let her do her laundry at my house because her mother flat out told her she couldn't use their washer/dryer anymore. I used to give her the keys to my place so she could hang out there while I was out of town, in case she wanted to get away from her roommate. Basically whatever this girl needed, I was there: Work problems, stress over her abysmal living situation, lack of money, depression/anxiety... I was there. Even after the break-up, I still let her sleep over when she needed to get away from her sketchy roommate, or call at 1:30 AM when something bad happened at work and she was suffering from an anxiety attack.

I'm not sure why I've struggled with this break up so much. She said she wasn't sure about our chemistry, that she still wasn't over her last break-up (the guy she was with for 6+ years who broke up with her just under a year earlier) and that she thought she wanted a relationship but doesn't feel that way now. We got into three arguments over the span of our entire relationship, all of which stemmed from us drinking too much and getting into silly disputes... I'm talking stuff most people would let roll off their back the following morning. I just don't understand why someone would continue picking a life full of bottom feeding, lowest common denominator friends, alcohol, dead end jobs, zero education and no career prospects over a shot at something tangible with a person who's clearly willing to give you the sort of support, stability and encouragement you've lacked most of your life.

Since April, my "love life" has been an abject failure. Within 36 hours of the break up, I got drunk and fooled around with a waitress from my friends restaurant who I eventually discovered was legitimately nuts and has spent time in jail for assaulting an ex, drunk in public, breaking and entering, probation violations, etc. I kept that going for about a month and a half before I finally had to cut her crazy out of my life.

A tattoo artist girl I used to date who moved back from Florida this past spring began sleeping over and we've fooled around on/off, but she gets drunk and tries to start arguments all the time. Seriously constantly. I told her to delete my number this weekend.

I've been spending time with a new girl who's super pretty and nice, but she's a divorcee and seems eager to lock down another serious relationship. I'm not prepared for that sort of thing and it doesn't seem fair to continue spending time with her if we're both looking for entirely different things.

sorry to hear all of that. with the most recent girl, i'd tell her you aren't ready for anything serious right now. a part of me feels like she may understand given her own prior circumstance(s). 

i tried to do the same shit with my most recent ex (being everything her exes weren't) and it got really exhausting really fast and i burnt out quickly which led to our breakup, more or less. 

at the end of the day, it doesn't matter how much you bend over backwards. for some people, it's never enough and you'll just grow really resentful. 

I wish I could think in those terms because, instead, I'm kinda left questioning what I did wrong. Like, "were those three arguments really THAT bad? Were we not having enough sex? Did I show I cared so much that I eventually smothered her?" I'm not used to someone telling me there's issues with chemistry. I've honestly never struggled to create that spark or build some rapport with women I'm interested in. For awhile I thought maybe she could have cheated, or wanted her ex back or something. I think she's legitimately wrecked over that break up with her ex, because the guy forced her to move two hours from the only world she's known since birth and then broke up with her a month later. She had to move back here with her tail between her legs, get a new job and move in with her family. I'm sure that had a significant impact on her self-worth, hence why I tried so hard to build her back up.

I just don't think she's got her head on straight. It's easier for a person to surround themselves with other people who didn't go to college, don't have any sort of career or long-term ambitions and generally act like adult children because it makes them feel like less of a full-fledged fuck-up at 31 years old.

[jimmyjump]

Girl I've been talking to has a live video of 311 on her IG. Fucking right doggy.

[crawlingcosmichorror]

Aug 15, 2018 13:43:33 GMT -5 Reverend Bïtch said:

Aug 15, 2018 12:24:56 GMT -5 MMST3K said:

Honey where do you want that pentagram again?

I legit hate my life

Same.

[FEMA Sniper]

I met a girl a few weeks ago surfing. I have a date with this tasty biscuit on Saturday night. She's not a kook so that rules. Sorry had to use tasty biscuit. It's too funny and awesome.

[MMST3K]

Aug 16, 2018 1:08:51 GMT -5 majormilfunction said:

I’m getting married in 25 days :)

Congratulations! 

[quit_everything]

Aug 15, 2018 14:05:02 GMT -5 Percussionist Foster Grant said:

Aug 15, 2018 12:41:28 GMT -5 @dogmeat said:

sorry to hear all of that. with the most recent girl, i'd tell her you aren't ready for anything serious right now. a part of me feels like she may understand given her own prior circumstance(s). 

i tried to do the same shit with my most recent ex (being everything her exes weren't) and it got really exhausting really fast and i burnt out quickly which led to our breakup, more or less. 

at the end of the day, it doesn't matter how much you bend over backwards. for some people, it's never enough and you'll just grow really resentful. 

I wish I could think in those terms because, instead, I'm kinda left questioning what I did wrong. Like, "were those three arguments really THAT bad? Were we not having enough sex? Did I show I cared so much that I eventually smothered her?" I'm not used to someone telling me there's issues with chemistry. I've honestly never struggled to create that spark or build some rapport with women I'm interested in. For awhile I thought maybe she could have cheated, or wanted her ex back or something. I think she's legitimately wrecked over that break up with her ex, because the guy forced her to move two hours from the only world she's known since birth and then broke up with her a month later. She had to move back here with her tail between her legs, get a new job and move in with her family. I'm sure that had a significant impact on her self-worth, hence why I tried so hard to build her back up.

I just don't think she's got her head on straight. It's easier for a person to surround themselves with other people who didn't go to college, don't have any sort of career or long-term ambitions and generally act like adult children because it makes them feel like less of a full-fledged fuck-up at 31 years old.

things would of worked out if you had farted in front of her