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Post by Deleted on Mar 11, 2019 13:32:48 GMT -5
Sounds like a 20-something 22, baby!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 11, 2019 14:29:52 GMT -5
Got two back-to-back weddings coming up in the summer. Gimme hook-up tips. Dance your ass off like Buff Cornell.
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Post by twocripplesdancing on Mar 11, 2019 14:34:41 GMT -5
Got two back-to-back weddings coming up in the summer. Gimme hook-up tips. Dance your ass off like Buff Cornell. Got two back-to-back weddings coming up in the summer. Gimme hook-up tips. Clean up nice. Don't drink much. Focus on whose day it is and all the important relationships around you. Be tall. Both solid pieces of advice. I'm tall too, so I can be thankful for that.
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Post by M on Mar 12, 2019 9:59:29 GMT -5
I am super single.. I dont think im lonely but sometimes im like "i would like to be doing this with someone" but that is as far as it goes. Im 40 and always said that if i was never married before i was 40, then it was never going to happen and i guess i have just accepted the fact. I refuse to do Tinder and Bumble- I am super old fashioned and think that if i was ever meant to meet anyone, it will happen and if not, im ok with being alone. Its not lack of going out and talking to people- i go out and talk to anyone that will listen because i love making new friends (poor "Dogmeat" had the misfortune of sitting next to me at a Citizen show in NYC and found that out haha). I travel for shows a lot but im really bad at picking up signs and think everyone is just being friendly which i think is a problem, but i also never like people that like me back or vice versa. My friends say i have commitment issues and find excuses to not like people. Its whatever. Im most happy walking around a city before a show checking out things rather than meeting total strangers in a bar and hoping that i have some connection with them.
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Post by not Worship on Mar 12, 2019 14:45:10 GMT -5
This week just fucked my whole shit up and now i gotta untangle emotions. Lame. Might have to set up some therapy for the first time in like two years.
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Post by twocripplesdancing on Mar 12, 2019 15:23:09 GMT -5
This week just fucked my whole shit up and now i gotta untangle emotions. Lame. Might have to set up some therapy for the first time in like two years. Do it. You'll be glad you did.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 12, 2019 17:07:03 GMT -5
Super single
But I keep forgetting i have a date tomorrow
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Post by M on Mar 13, 2019 3:04:40 GMT -5
I havent been on a date in over a year. Maybe i should join tinder haha
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Post by Deleted on Mar 13, 2019 4:39:42 GMT -5
Tinder is fun just dont suffer idiots
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Post by Thin Lizzy Gulag Graduate on Mar 13, 2019 11:47:15 GMT -5
just get a dog
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Post by twocripplesdancing on Mar 17, 2019 5:06:52 GMT -5
I thought I was over my ex, but a month later I can't stop thinking about her. This sucks.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 17, 2019 7:44:43 GMT -5
I have a crush on a girl who is nothing like me. In fact I think most of the shit she’s into is lame. But she’s the first thing I think of when I wake up and the last thing before I go to sleep. She fucked my whole world up and I just can’t bring myself to tell her. I don’t want to ruin anything. I don’t know where I’m going with this but I needed to get that off my chest. I got it bad. If she’s a co worker or dating one of your friends, forget about it. This will cause major headache. Otherwise, talk to her, She is a human being and I’m not sure what your fucking up if you have anything even going on between you. Keep shit light and don’t come off desperate. When I was younger I was in the same exact situation as you, however I never did anything and she just drifted away. You gotta get your life some what in check, so your not just thinking about her 24/7. PM if you wanna vent.
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Post by twocripplesdancing on Mar 17, 2019 8:02:50 GMT -5
Yeah I agree. My ex and I worked together, and while there can be an undeniable frisson to workplace romances, I suppose I was somewhat lucky that she quit to go back to college. We split up last month, and I could not imagine how awkward it would be working with an ex.
You like this person or just the idea of her?
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Post by Brah-lie on Mar 17, 2019 8:13:30 GMT -5
That was actually some of the best advice I ever received, this old orderly at the hospital I used to work at told me “never get your honey, where you make your money”. There’s too much room for stuff to go wrong, then you’re stuck in an awkward spot.
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Post by koreangirls on Mar 17, 2019 9:30:56 GMT -5
I never really understood this advice. If you go for it, the best case scenario is that you meet a lifelong partner, and the worst that it's a bit awkward at the workplace. If you don't go for it, the best case scenario is that you maybe only have to deal with thinking about what could've happened for a short amount of time and that there's no awkwardness at your workplace, and the worst case scenario is you waste an opportunity to find a potential lifelong partner. Plus, this is not like the old days where everyone had a single job their entire life. There's a good chance you won't be working together anymore fairly soon. I don't know, unless you're someone who gets into serious relationship really easily, I don't see how the risk isn't worth it.
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Post by Brah-lie on Mar 17, 2019 9:40:04 GMT -5
There’s too much room for things to go south- then you’re in a shitty situation that could have easily been avoided by simply following the one rule that I’d assume most people would take as common sense. Plus if I worked a traditional job, last thing I would want is to work with my partner then go home with her, having time apart is healthy.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 17, 2019 9:47:57 GMT -5
Also you might miss opportunities for promotion because of your relationship. Most places won’t let you supervise your significant other.
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Post by killthekool on Mar 17, 2019 11:05:24 GMT -5
but you could get bj's in your car on ur lunchbreak
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Post by killthekool on Mar 17, 2019 11:07:24 GMT -5
𝕄𝔼👁𝕎𝔽𝕌ℕℂ𝕋𝕀👁ℕ can we get a sentence spice for car? like 93 Tercel
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Post by Deleted on Mar 17, 2019 11:42:59 GMT -5
What’s your guys love language?
Mines def gift giving and acts of service lol
5 languages: receiving gifts quality time words of affirmation acts of service (devotion) physical touch
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Post by killthekool on Mar 17, 2019 13:49:06 GMT -5
Words of affirmation is my love language...
Calling me daddy and sir
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Post by Deleted on Mar 17, 2019 17:09:40 GMT -5
What’s your guys love language? Mines def gift giving and acts of service lol 5 languages: receiving gifts quality time words of affirmation acts of service (devotion) physical touch words of affirmation and quality time aka i really like it when you text me back
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Post by ITID on Mar 17, 2019 17:14:55 GMT -5
Is washing behind my ears a gift or an act of devotion?
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Post by stephanie on Mar 17, 2019 17:45:41 GMT -5
Is washing behind my ears a gift or an act of devotion? Could be both depending on how you look at it.
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Post by not Worship on Mar 18, 2019 8:54:05 GMT -5
What’s your guys love language? Mines def gift giving and acts of service lol 5 languages: receiving gifts quality time words of affirmation acts of service (devotion) physical touch is this what women think about
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Post by M on Mar 18, 2019 9:47:53 GMT -5
To the person who was saying "i feel like the initiator of all conversations"- if a girl isnt messaging you first, or not answering your texts quickly (unless they have a legit excuse and a job that involves having their phone somewhere hidden) then they arent interested.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 18, 2019 11:30:16 GMT -5
What’s your guys love language? Mines def gift giving and acts of service lol 5 languages: receiving gifts quality time words of affirmation acts of service (devotion) physical touch is this what women think about yes not this specifically but do men not think about the ways that their partner feels Valued/loved?!?
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Post by twocripplesdancing on Mar 18, 2019 11:43:48 GMT -5
is this what women think about yes not this specifically but do men not think about the ways that their partner feels Valued/loved?!? I can't say I've actively delineated things in that way, but those are still things I have done at one point or another in a relationship.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 18, 2019 11:50:09 GMT -5
The whole concept is that we all feel loved in different ways so your partner may feel loved when you do their laundry/help them with a project etc but you personally may feel loved when you spend quality time together eg grocery shopping, cooking dinner together etc.
So if you’re just showing your partner love in the way that YOU like to be shown love there could be this disconnect!! And then neither of you feel valued/appreciated!!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 18, 2019 11:50:45 GMT -5
Thank you for listening to my ted talk
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