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Post by Aaron on Jul 20, 2018 14:57:26 GMT -5
tinder, bumble, etc. is purely to get laid. i don't care how anyone wants to slice it up, and it's cool if you want to use it for any other reasons, but that's how i view it which is why i will never purposely go into it as a relationship tool. organic chemistry will always be the best for me. apps do nothing except make it vastly easier for everyone. Tinder and bumble are basically just physical speed dating, which is fine but not just about sex. There's almost always a chance to make an emotional/engagement impact before the sex stuff. Not sure what the numbers are like this year, but of the 30 weddings we shot last year, 18 of those couples met on tinder and had been together for an average of three years. |
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Post by Sorley Boy on Jul 20, 2018 15:00:42 GMT -5
Not knocking people on dating sites, I met my girlfriend on one and I'm sure there are a fair number of attractive guys, but I feel like most girls are going to take someone they already know and care about over sifting through brah_lifes online.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2018 15:02:25 GMT -5
Tinder and bumble are basically just physical speed dating, which is fine but not just about sex. There's almost always a chance to make an emotional/engagement impact before the sex stuff. Not sure what the numbers are like this year, but of the 30 weddings we shot last year, 18 of those couples met on tinder and had been together for an average of three years. lol GAY |
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Post by itii on Jul 20, 2018 15:21:12 GMT -5
i agree that's how they were developed and the intent behind that, but it's just not reality from my experience. I think it heavily depends on where you're at, though. In my experience, bigger cities have more of a hookup scene than smaller ones. issalso in general more normal to have sex sooner in the former.
I became a bit cynical during my time using Tinder and Bumble in the US, but recently I've been having a bit of a different experience where I'm actually having really good conversations with some girls. And it does seems like it's more about the emotional connection this time rather than just wanting to get together to fuck. If I remember correctly, there have also been some people in the B9 thread that said they met their girlfriends using these apps.
I feel like this is symptomatic of dating in big cities and having more lines in the water. The more options they have, generally, the less initial investment people are willing to make unless they're trying to swing for the fences or there's just that instant spark. |
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Post by Brah-lie on Jul 20, 2018 16:26:27 GMT -5
So you don’t have psychical features that you’re attracted to? Maybe you should look at becoming a nun? 😉 it's the way you phrase things you dingbat. it's creepy. add in the shoes and you sound absolutely ridiculous and completely unbelievable. I just pointed out I am a fan of women that have dd’s- given the context of some of the shit posted here I’d say that’s relatively harmless and tame. |
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Post by Brah-lie on Jul 20, 2018 16:27:18 GMT -5
Not knocking people on dating sites, I met my girlfriend on one and I'm sure there are a fair number of attractive guys, but I feel like most girls are going to take someone they already know and care about over sifting through brah_lifes online. If she settled for you, poor girl must of been desperate. 🤣 |
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Post by Sorley Boy on Jul 20, 2018 16:44:59 GMT -5
I'm not even trying to be mean right now, but you're 40, unemployed and single. The time for nonsense about stewardesses with "DDs", "desperate" girls and picking up women at the Basketball Hall of Fame is over. Buy an adult pair of shoes and grow up.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2018 17:25:22 GMT -5
I think it heavily depends on where you're at, though. In my experience, bigger cities have more of a hookup scene than smaller ones. issalso in general more normal to have sex sooner in the former.
I became a bit cynical during my time using Tinder and Bumble in the US, but recently I've been having a bit of a different experience where I'm actually having really good conversations with some girls. And it does seems like it's more about the emotional connection this time rather than just wanting to get together to fuck. If I remember correctly, there have also been some people in the B9 thread that said they met their girlfriends using these apps.
I feel like this is symptomatic of dating in big cities and having more lines in the water. The more options they have, generally, the less initial investment people are willing to make unless they're trying to swing for the fences or there's just that instant spark. you both make great points |
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Post by killthekool on Jul 20, 2018 17:30:54 GMT -5
brah life is 40? its all making sense now
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Post by Thermonuclearwarrior on Jul 20, 2018 17:34:37 GMT -5
Been single for almost 2 and a half years \m/
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Post by Thermonuclearwarrior on Jul 20, 2018 18:22:43 GMT -5
does anyone even use ok cupid anymore? seems like tinder cornered the market Okcupid is garbage now, I heard they added in something so it's like tinder where you can only message matches. |
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Post by ass eyes on Jul 20, 2018 18:42:34 GMT -5
OkCupid took a big shit trying to be like everyone else.
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Post by crawlingcosmichorror on Jul 20, 2018 19:21:57 GMT -5
Complicated and toxic.
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Post by odouls on Jul 20, 2018 20:06:08 GMT -5
“Love life “ may be a rather grandiose term for staring at women on the bus
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Post by beckybreach on Jul 20, 2018 20:21:01 GMT -5
I wish I had the mental energy for a love life.
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Post by jimmyjump on Jul 20, 2018 20:28:59 GMT -5
I know lots of people going through divorce at the moment and it seems like everybody is trying their hardest to just jump right into some new shit. I really don't get it but I've never been a serial dater either.
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Post by Aaron on Jul 20, 2018 22:07:47 GMT -5
Not sure what the numbers are like this year, but of the 30 weddings we shot last year, 18 of those couples met on tinder and had been together for an average of three years. pretty cool ftfy |
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Post by Brah-lie on Jul 20, 2018 22:14:29 GMT -5
I'm not even trying to be mean right now, but you're 40, unemployed and single. The time for nonsense about stewardesses with "DDs", "desperate" girls and picking up women at the Basketball Hall of Fame is over. Buy an adult pair of shoes and grow up. You must be a lot of fun to be around- just kidding, you’re legitimately a pathetic, boring and obnoxious cunt. Typical tool that thinks you need to slave for someone else to make money- not gonna “brag”, but I’m doing A-ok. Eat my cum. |
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Post by Brah-lie on Jul 20, 2018 22:42:47 GMT -5
I make money- all legal avenues. All you need to know.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2018 22:43:46 GMT -5
I make money- all legal avenues. All you need to know. no you dont. |
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Post by Brah-lie on Jul 20, 2018 22:52:18 GMT -5
I make money- all legal avenues. All you need to know. no you dont. Let me fuck your girlfriend- you’ll prob get harder at the story of me spewing a load of baby batter against her tonsils than her warm wet vagina rubbing against you. FOH muchacho. |
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Post by Thermonuclearwarrior on Jul 20, 2018 22:55:45 GMT -5
What is it like, having a stable relationship with a human being?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2018 23:10:36 GMT -5
Let me fuck your girlfriend- you’ll prob get harder at the story of me spewing a load of baby batter against her tonsils than her warm wet vagina rubbing against you. FOH muchacho. 1. I'm single 2. that was a terrible insult |
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Post by Brah-lie on Jul 20, 2018 23:15:24 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2018 23:16:40 GMT -5
is there a reason why you wont disclose what you do for a living?
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Post by Aaron on Jul 20, 2018 23:18:43 GMT -5
What is it like, having a stable relationship with a human being? I’m the unstable one. It’s pretty rad. Full stop, I’m lucky to have someone who’s so patient because I’m a fucking wildly depressed, self-absorbed questionably stable handful. |
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Post by Brah-lie on Jul 20, 2018 23:21:55 GMT -5
is there a reason why you wont disclose what you do for a living? Yeah- you want to talk business, show me some money or equity. If not, fuck off. |
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Post by itii on Jul 20, 2018 23:24:09 GMT -5
is there a reason why you wont disclose what you do for a living? Yeah- you want to talk business, show me some money or equity. If not, fuck off. So you're afraid that if you tell people what you do, even vaguely, they're going to move in on your very valuable hustle? |
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Post by Brah-lie on Jul 20, 2018 23:27:31 GMT -5
Yeah- you want to talk business, show me some money or equity. If not, fuck off. So you're afraid that if you tell people what you do, even vaguely, they're going to move in on your very valuable hustle? Not at all- it’s just no ones business what I do. The fact that it bothers people is something I find hilarious. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2018 23:33:22 GMT -5
is there a reason why you wont disclose what you do for a living? Yeah- you want to talk business, show me some money or equity. If not, fuck off. what? |
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