Love life (ITT: Chalie Danger Sex Play)

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yes.

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Jul 20, 2018 1:18:10 GMT -5 Brah-lie said:

Definitely two numbers- preferably a flight attendant with natural dd’s.

god you're gross. 

[Yung Nick]

Dude bought a brick and lost a hell in a cell match to MMS, he's falling apart

[Brah-lie]

Jul 20, 2018 8:50:47 GMT -5 @geneweenondrugs said:

Jul 20, 2018 1:18:10 GMT -5 Brah-lie said:

Definitely two numbers- preferably a flight attendant with natural dd’s.

god you're gross. 

So you don’t have psychical features that you’re attracted to? Maybe you should look at becoming a nun? 😉

[Brah-lie]

Jul 20, 2018 8:51:55 GMT -5 Yung Nick said:

muchacho bought a brick and lost a hell in a cell match to MMS, he's falling apart

Never- top of the world, baby! Top of the world!

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Jul 20, 2018 9:08:04 GMT -5 Brah-lie said:

Jul 20, 2018 8:50:47 GMT -5 @geneweenondrugs said:

god you're gross. 

So you don’t have psychical features that you’re attracted to? Maybe you should look at becoming a nun? 😉

it's the way you phrase things you dingbat. it's creepy. add in the shoes and you sound absolutely ridiculous and completely unbelievable.

[brahskolnikov]

Jul 19, 2018 17:48:49 GMT -5 Reverend Bïtch said:

Jul 19, 2018 16:02:50 GMT -5 killthekool said:

Feeling rlly weird about a relationship im in. Just overall not that happy anymore. Trying to figure out the best way to do it cuz i owe her a ton of money and feel weird about it but I dont wanna prolong the inevitable. Shes gonna be devastated and i feel terrible but i just dont have time for a mediocre relationship. Anyone have any advice on it?

i would say that if you're not happy you have two options... work on it with her, or end it. figure out what the reasons are that you're not happy and decide if working on it will improve the situation. really figuring yourself out is the key. what makes you happy? what about the relationship makes you unhappy? talking about it is so important. NOT talking about things destroyed my marriage. if you realize that you would be better off working on yourself, it's best to rip the bandaid off and be honest about it. the money thing is tough but you can't let that be the reason to stay together. 

since my divorce i've been a magnet for bad relationships so i'm staying single for a while. i'm super busy with work, school and my extracurriculars which are all what i'd rather focus on. plus i'm getting older and less into dealing with nonsense so if anyone comes along they have to have their shit together in major ways. plus i think i'm probably gay these days too so if anyone has a hot gay sister hmu

I second Jesse's advice. It's smart to really assess what you like and dislike, figure out if you can work on the latter together, and bail if it can't be, but communication is key. 

[Radiation]

Jul 19, 2018 14:39:21 GMT -5 ☭ Bob Loblaw ☭ said:

Love of my life cheated on me and moved out about a year ago, and I’ve been pretty much fucked up ever since. I took up smoking cigs again and have a pretty decent case of 24/7 anxiety. I’ve made baby steps of progress since then but as far as getting back out there goes, I haven’t really had any interest. Work and hangin with friends is p much exclusively where I’m at currently.

I just got out of a relationship this year I feel you : ( Love you homie stay up

[☭ Bob Loblaw ☭]

Thanks much, duder

love is for the fucking birds

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Jul 20, 2018 11:25:33 GMT -5 ☭ Bob Loblaw ☭ said:

Thanks much, muchachor

love is for the fuckin' birds

you're a cool guy. you'll be fine. 

[Yung Nick]

nothing Disclose can't help

[☭ Bob Loblaw ☭]

:-*  Thanks guys 

[quit_everything]

been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. we live three hours away from each other but one of of makes the drive like 75% of time on weekends since we both have them off. things are pretty darn swell.

[koreangirls]

Jul 20, 2018 12:53:39 GMT -5 quit_everything said:

been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. we live three hours away from each other but one of of makes the drive like 75% of time on weekends since we both have them off. things are pretty darn swell.

Were you living so far apart when you met, as well?

[quit_everything]

Jul 20, 2018 13:10:05 GMT -5 koreangirls said:

Jul 20, 2018 12:53:39 GMT -5 quit_everything said:

been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. we live three hours away from each other but one of of makes the drive like 75% of time on weekends since we both have them off. things are pretty darn swell.

Were you living so far apart when you met, as well?

yup. she was here for a halloween show/party and we met through mutual friends.

[escapedfromthevalley]

I don't envy any of you who are single and dating in 2018. I've been married for 7 years, together for 16. Just based on stories I'm told and read here on this board I know I couldn't handle modern dating. Good luck out there everybody.

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Jul 20, 2018 13:18:27 GMT -5 escapedfromthevalley said:

I don't envy any of you who are single and dating in 2018. I've been married for 7 years, together for 16. Just based on stories I'm told and read here on this board I know I couldn't handle modern dating. Good luck out there everybody.

it's even worse than you can imagine. 

[Yung Nick]

Jul 20, 2018 13:18:27 GMT -5 escapedfromthevalley said:

I don't envy any of you who are single and dating in 2018. I've been married for 7 years, together for 16. Just based on stories I'm told and read here on this board I know I couldn't handle modern dating. Good luck out there everybody.

hell, im from the modern era and i am a lot happier to have someone. I mean, the tinder video game does sound interesting, but I only wanna play to fuck with people, like play a character on there. Other than that, I don't like flirting with people. I'm content. 

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tinder, bumble, etc. is purely to get laid. i don't care how anyone wants to slice it up, and it's cool if you want to use it for any other reasons, but that's how i view it which is why i will never purposely go into it as a relationship tool.

organic chemistry will always be the best for me. apps do nothing except make it vastly easier for everyone.

[itii]

Jul 20, 2018 13:30:17 GMT -5 @machoinsecurity said:

tinder, bumble, etc. is purely to get laid. i don't care how anyone wants to slice it up, and it's cool if you want to use it for any other reasons, but that's how i view it which is why i will never purposely go into it as a relationship tool.

organic chemistry will always be the best for me. apps do nothing except make it vastly easier for everyone.

Tinder and bumble are basically just physical speed dating, which is fine but not just about sex. There's almost always a chance to make an emotional/engagement impact before the sex stuff. 

[koreangirls]

Jul 20, 2018 13:17:22 GMT -5 quit_everything said:

Jul 20, 2018 13:10:05 GMT -5 koreangirls said:

Were you living so far apart when you met, as well?

yup. she was here for a halloween show/party and we met through mutual friends.

It's pretty cool you made it work then. I currently live in the middle of nowhere and only meet cool girls that are two hours away, but I often feel like that's already too far to legit start something. I should be moving soon, so hopefully this shortly becomes moot, but your post gives me a bit more hope regardless.

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Jul 20, 2018 13:42:16 GMT -5 itii said:

Jul 20, 2018 13:30:17 GMT -5 @machoinsecurity said:

tinder, bumble, etc. is purely to get laid. i don't care how anyone wants to slice it up, and it's cool if you want to use it for any other reasons, but that's how i view it which is why i will never purposely go into it as a relationship tool.

organic chemistry will always be the best for me. apps do nothing except make it vastly easier for everyone.

Tinder and bumble are basically just physical speed dating, which is fine but not just about sex. There's almost always a chance to make an emotional/engagement impact before the sex stuff. 

speak for yourself

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Jul 20, 2018 13:43:55 GMT -5 koreangirls said:

Jul 20, 2018 13:17:22 GMT -5 quit_everything said:

yup. she was here for a halloween show/party and we met through mutual friends.

It's pretty cool you made it work then. I currently live in the middle of nowhere and only meet cool girls that are two hours away, but I often feel like that's already too far to legit start something. I should be moving soon, so hopefully this shortly becomes moot, but your post gives me a bit more hope regardless.

i dated a guy 300 miles away for 2 years before i moved to chicago for him. it ultimately didn't work out but he's one of my best friends now. 
however, i was fortunate to have a reliable car and flexible work schedule. you just have to want it bad enough and have an end goal

[itii]

Jul 20, 2018 13:46:31 GMT -5 @geneweenondrugs said:

Jul 20, 2018 13:42:16 GMT -5 itii said:

Tinder and bumble are basically just physical speed dating, which is fine but not just about sex. There's almost always a chance to make an emotional/engagement impact before the sex stuff. 

speak for yourself

Come for the handsome face, stay for my shitty personality.

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Jul 20, 2018 13:42:16 GMT -5 itii said:

Jul 20, 2018 13:30:17 GMT -5 @machoinsecurity said:

tinder, bumble, etc. is purely to get laid. i don't care how anyone wants to slice it up, and it's cool if you want to use it for any other reasons, but that's how i view it which is why i will never purposely go into it as a relationship tool.

organic chemistry will always be the best for me. apps do nothing except make it vastly easier for everyone.

Tinder and bumble are basically just physical speed dating, which is fine but not just about sex. There's almost always a chance to make an emotional/engagement impact before the sex stuff. 

i agree that's how they were developed and the intent behind that, but it's just not reality from my experience.

[Radiation]

I was dating someone 4 hours away for almost 2 years. The driving was fine but you both have to be strong.

[koreangirls]

Jul 20, 2018 13:47:53 GMT -5 @geneweenondrugs said:

Jul 20, 2018 13:43:55 GMT -5 koreangirls said:

It's pretty cool you made it work then. I currently live in the middle of nowhere and only meet cool girls that are two hours away, but I often feel like that's already too far to legit start something. I should be moving soon, so hopefully this shortly becomes moot, but your post gives me a bit more hope regardless.

i dated a guy 300 miles away for 2 years before i moved to chicago for him. it ultimately didn't work out but he's one of my best friends now. 
however, i was fortunate to have a reliable car and flexible work schedule. you just have to want it bad enough and have an end goal

Oh yeah, definitely. I guess my concern is that I don't see why a girl would do that if she could be with someone closer. Especially if you meet on Tinder or Bumble where there are so many options.

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ah, yeah. weird shit happens sometimes though. never know.

[koreangirls]

Jul 20, 2018 13:57:17 GMT -5 @machoinsecurity said:

Jul 20, 2018 13:42:16 GMT -5 itii said:

Tinder and bumble are basically just physical speed dating, which is fine but not just about sex. There's almost always a chance to make an emotional/engagement impact before the sex stuff. 

i agree that's how they were developed and the intent behind that, but it's just not reality from my experience.

I think it heavily depends on where you're at, though. In my experience, bigger cities have more of a hookup scene than smaller ones. It's also in general more normal to have sex sooner in the former.

I became a bit cynical during my time using Tinder and Bumble in the US, but recently I've been having a bit of a different experience where I'm actually having really good conversations with some girls. And it does seems like it's more about the emotional connection this time rather than just wanting to get together to fuck. If I remember correctly, there have also been some people in the B9 thread that said they met their girlfriends using these apps.

[Athrenody]

Jun 29, 2018 22:53:11 GMT -5 bombsxwillxfly said:

i’m “talking” to this guy.. i used to have a huge crush on all through our middle school. but he’s starting to bore me and is kind of weird

I bet he's pumped for this movie