Osama Vinladen Jiménez López
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Post by Osama Vinladen Jiménez López on Nov 24, 2023 11:01:30 GMT -5
Black Friday? More like pink hole 👍
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Post by Reasonablepizza518 on Nov 26, 2023 20:41:05 GMT -5
I broke things off with a girl I'd be seeing since September. She was really cool and fun but I wasn't super attracted to her and she lives two hours away.
I was supposed to drive to her house after work on Tuesday and all weekend I keep thinking "I really, really, don't want to drive there." I know I wouldn't feel that way if I were more into it so I feel good about being transparent and cutting bait.
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Post by 𝕄𝔼👁𝕎𝔽𝕌ℕℂ𝕋𝕀👁ℕ on Nov 26, 2023 20:45:43 GMT -5
putting the reasonable in reasonablepizza518
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floorpunchchalie
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Post by floorpunchchalie on Nov 26, 2023 21:26:55 GMT -5
I broke things off with a girl I'd be seeing since September. She was really cool and fun but I wasn't super attracted to her and she lives two hours away. I was supposed to drive to her house after work on Tuesday and all weekend I keep thinking "I really, really, don't want to drive there." I know I wouldn't feel that way if I were more into it so I feel good about being transparent and cutting bait. Excellent job on your part with not prolonging something you’re not completely into. I think you handled this very maturely! Kudos.
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MMST3K
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Post by MMST3K on Nov 26, 2023 23:44:47 GMT -5
Damn it's really disappointing when chalie actually says something constructive.
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Perm’d by God
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Post by Perm’d by God on Nov 27, 2023 1:19:42 GMT -5
I mean, there’s no details about how he handled it. He just said that he did handle it. The vagueness and generalizability are what perk chalie’s ears.
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hAloween h2o fan
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Post by hAloween h2o fan on Nov 27, 2023 7:00:01 GMT -5
Is it gay for a guy to break things off? Much to think about.
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Post by Reasonablepizza518 on Nov 27, 2023 10:58:36 GMT -5
I mean, there’s no details about how he handled it. He just said that he did handle it. The vagueness and generalizability are what perk chalie’s ears. I called her when she got home from work and told her I wasn't feeling it. She said "yeah, I had a feeling this was coming. Can I ask why?" and I told her I didn't feel like I was going to develop a romantic connection and I didn't want to waste either of our time.
It wen't as well as could be expected considering how much that situation fucking sucks.
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tandoori jones
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Post by tandoori jones on Nov 29, 2023 21:20:01 GMT -5
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Depeche Mode
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Post by Depeche Mode on Dec 5, 2023 10:42:31 GMT -5
wen't out for pizza with a shorty last night who slid into my DMs. wen't okay-ish.
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jermojames
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Post by jermojames on Dec 5, 2023 11:17:13 GMT -5
anybody here fuck w poly/enm?
my horniness/desperation was stronger than my skepticism and i’m a believer
thats the worst way i can put it and probably insulting to anybody actually into it, but jokes aside im the happiest ive been in a long time
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JDS
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a kid got his ear punched off
I’m something all you parents hate to see but don’t worry, it’s just me, Jeremy!
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Post by JDS on Dec 5, 2023 11:43:04 GMT -5
anybody here fuck w poly/enm? my horniness/desperation was stronger than my skepticism and i’m a believer thats the worst way i can put it and probably insulting to anybody actually into it, but jokes aside im the happiest ive been in a long time Yeah... I'm too old to feel this disposable.
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Depeche Mode
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Post by Depeche Mode on Dec 5, 2023 11:44:41 GMT -5
it's so bad
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rowdiedondown
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Post by rowdiedondown on Dec 5, 2023 11:45:14 GMT -5
We tried, but he managed to cheat on me anyways
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Perm’d by God
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Post by Perm’d by God on Dec 5, 2023 12:06:27 GMT -5
Why can’t people just have an unspoken sleeping around agreement like married couples have had for decades?
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hAloween h2o fan
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Post by hAloween h2o fan on Dec 5, 2023 12:12:27 GMT -5
Pursuing multiple partners and/or maintaining more than one intimate relationship sounds exhausting
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Post by escapedfromthevalley on Dec 5, 2023 12:17:41 GMT -5
I've met a few poly/swinger folks in the last two years. Nearly every one is insufferable and self-absorbed. Seems like it'd be a fun thing to get involved with purely for sex but I could not imagine trying to maintain that dynamic while involved in a relationship I actually care about
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Sorley Boy
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Post by Sorley Boy on Dec 5, 2023 12:42:47 GMT -5
Yeah. I know one couple in an open relationship. It's basically the wife banging dudes from the margins of society while the guy tries and fails to get women interested in sex with a married father of small children. This guy recently decided to grow a goatee. This couple is still at it. Not a road you want to go down, believe me.
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bravecaptain
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Post by bravecaptain on Dec 5, 2023 12:49:08 GMT -5
Recently axed 2/3 of my rotation, feels like I lost 20lbs
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stephanie
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Post by stephanie on Dec 5, 2023 12:49:23 GMT -5
it doesn't seem nearly as exhausting as fucking an endless stream of dl guys who have no real interest in being seen in public with me, or are already married, etc.
are there lots of straight people in poly relationships and i'm just blissfully unaware?
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bravecaptain
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Post by bravecaptain on Dec 5, 2023 12:49:46 GMT -5
About to axe that last third, amicably, because her semester here is ending and she’s moving
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antipasto
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Post by antipasto on Dec 5, 2023 13:07:56 GMT -5
When my ex started entering her hippie era she started talking about opening up our relationship. We fooled around with another girl, and she immediately started asking us to loan her money and to let her move in with us. Did not work out
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meatballmaniac
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Post by meatballmaniac on Dec 5, 2023 13:13:01 GMT -5
Why can’t people just have an unspoken sleeping around agreement like married couples have had for decades? Narc nostalgic for the old days 🧐
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anointed
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Post by anointed on Dec 5, 2023 13:19:38 GMT -5
dating multiple partners at once isn't that bad and doesn't require a lot of work if they're all basically 6s. i can't imagine balancing a rotation of 8s or 9s. that's just torturous.
edit: chalz ass post
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accidentalcharm
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Post by accidentalcharm on Dec 5, 2023 13:23:50 GMT -5
Pfft. I can’t be nice to more than one partner at a time. I’m barely nice to my bf as it is!
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bravecaptain
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Post by bravecaptain on Dec 5, 2023 13:26:43 GMT -5
“Hey I’m not looking for anything serious but if you want casual but consistent, I’m your guy”
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crobssssss
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Post by crobssssss on Dec 5, 2023 13:40:51 GMT -5
Kody from Sister Wives had four 'wives' at one point and is now down to only one. The emotional toll it has taken on him is outwardly visible. Good luck to those who wish to travel in Kody's shoes!!
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JDS
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I’m something all you parents hate to see but don’t worry, it’s just me, Jeremy!
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Post by JDS on Dec 5, 2023 13:41:20 GMT -5
Hinge cracks me up: "Jeremy this is someone we think you should meet" and it's like a woman who owns a hot yoga studio and a winery.
The only like I've ever gotten on Hinge was clearly a catfish.
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Mr. Dingle Foot
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Post by Mr. Dingle Foot on Dec 5, 2023 13:41:57 GMT -5
Why can’t people just have an unspoken sleeping around agreement like married couples have had for decades? Narc nostalgic for the old days 🧐 he misses me being at his house on random days when his dad was out of town.
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Perm’d by God
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Post by Perm’d by God on Dec 5, 2023 13:44:02 GMT -5
Narc nostalgic for the old days 🧐 he misses me being at his house on random days when his dad was out of town. haha fat chance You’re not worthy of my mother
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